Yeah, it seems like a bit of an oversight on the part of the 2.1 developers.
I'm wondering if they even considered a toggle for that feature. If not, I'd be curious as to their logic.. likely along the lines of feeling that it is a very clever feature and who would not want such a clever feature.
yea, the vibe is just a reminder to let you know the call connected. if its up to your ear then you know when the call is connected because you can hear it. this phone is smarter than we give it credit for.