Figured it out if anyone is interested.
EDIT!! Many of the things I talk about throughout this thread was done on the droid. From other posts I have read, it looks like some of these features don't exist on pre 2.0 phones, eg "My Maps" is one of them.
I'll set up another situation.
Your at the Denver airport going to do a fly fishing trip in Great Fall, MT. You have reservations at the hampton inn. While your waiting for your flight you want to know how far away a tackle shop is from your hotel. I would start by pressing the magnifying glass for over a second to open up the speech search then say, "Map of hampton inn Great Falls Montana". Google maps opens up to Great falls and shows where the hampton inn is. Press on the bubble of the hampton inn to open up more information about it. Near the top, just to the right of where its says Hampton in, there is a star that you can click on to highlight. Highlight the star and now press the back key. You should now see a star below the hampton inn marker. Press menu, then search. You can then enter "Tackle" by typing in "tackle" or you can press the mic button to say "tackle". The Hampton inn marker will go away, and now all the tackle shops will be displayed. The star at the hampton inn will stay there so you know where it is. If you want to know how far away one of the tackle shops is from the hotel (I'll use "scheels" for this example), press on the scheels marker, get direction, click on the square box on the top right of the screen next to "My location". Select "Starred items", then the hampton inn. You should now see a screen that shows the hampton inn as the departure point and Scheels as the destination. Below those two box's you can select driving directions, public transportation or walking directions, then GO. It then will display all the information you need. It's 2.7 miles away (if you select driving directions, not walking) and the directions are all there.
With all the traveling I do, its nice to be able to do some planning before I get there. It really is simple and fast after doing it once.
I'm sure advanced users already know all this but I thought it might help someone out.