Now I need to post without being logged in cuz altho I did happen upon this info by a fluke like many things Ive discovered. He has (almost) full control remotely so it's a matter of me getting where I need to get and accessing what can while he's asleep or distracted. This morning I happened to get into his phone (you see he's actually do arrogant that he thinks he has got his shadybcrap. Buried so deep I won't find it) But I did and just as I suspected he's been cheating on me meeting up with people thru meet and F@%k sites and of course lots of chat rooms where he has been talking to other people (and who knows what else)
And this now former man of mine,  whom I completely trusted and showered him with love and affection, have him my whole heart and soul mind and spirit..... Always spoke so highly of him to my family, constantly building him up. ...
When I told him about a year ago that I had a feeling someone was hacking my phone. And that my phone was acting weird...... He would NEVER give my concerns the time of day. Never really put any effort into helping me resolve the issues. ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS dismissed my fears and concerns.  I COULD NOT GET HIM TO HELP ME! OF COURSE NOW I KNOW WHY.
BUT THRU OUT THIS YEAR, ALTHO I SUSPECTED HIM, HE CONTINUED TO DENY EVERY SINGLE THING. AND I MEAN EVERYTHING! AND ID ASK HIM QUESTIONS THAT ONLY HE WOULD KNOW THE ANSWERS TO.  After a while there was just an accumulation of WAY too many questions he couldn't answer and too many things he just ALWAYS SAID IDK TO WHEN ASKED. Ive been fooled for a long time! And my heart is broken by a narccistist.