yeah lol i said the same thing about the droid x. i really don't want a 4.3 in screen. it's too damn big man, gonna show a big print in ur pockets while walking.
as far as the apps, i didn't know that apps had to be designed to fit a screen. i just thought they blew up to automatically fit somehow, lol. i won't lie though, i've been through iPhone 3G, 3Gs, Palm Pre, and Motorola Droid. I've gotten rid of the iphones because i got bored of the interface. android is definitely an interesting interface, however, i like the iphone's stability and support for so many apps and companies.
of all the widgets i've used on my android device, i only found the calendar, power widget (turn bluetooth off, gps, etc in 1 touch), and the weather widget to be most useful. i didn't use facebook/twitter widgets too often. but coming back to iphone 4 is definitely a breeze knowing i wont be crashing or outdated with a ROM or something.
but being someone like me and having an android, there's definitely a lot of keeping up to do.