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wondering.... if maps lied? husband thinks im an idiot

Bg260 said:
Well, if your profile picture is an actual picture of you, I'd say he's an idiot. Dump his ass. Date me instead
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Yes my pics are real and thank u for ur time
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Another thing to remember: While doing things like confronting him with evidence, letting him know what an ass he is, or any other acts of vengeance or retribution may give you a feeling of satisfaction in the short term the longer game plan will be much more satisfying if you refrain from those. Imagine how absolutely aggravating it will be for him if you do nothing to show a reaction in any way, showing him that he now means as much to you as apparently you did to him. That's why it is imperative that you continue as tho nothing has changed while you get everything set that you need to. Then simply have divorce papers served on him with added notice that any contact he needs to make with you be done thru your attorney. I would further suggest you either change your phone number (trust me, although it can be inconvenient, it will be well worth the effort), or block his number (which he could get around by calling you from a different phone). Doing this, you will be free of the heartache of additional mind games and it will have the added bonus of driving him nuts not being able to exert any more control over you in any way. If necessary, don't rule out a restraining order depending on how he reacts. Letting go of the hurt and anger is not easy and I am not trying to present it as such but being on my third and final marriage I have definitely learned what to do and NOT do!
One more thing: People develop patterns and tend to go for what's familiar. So make sure you self-examine for any patterns that could put you in this same spot again, such as going for a particular type of person or situation. Asking a close friend to help you figure this out will help because you may not see it yourself.

Good luck!
 
If I were you I would very quickly pack my bags and immediately start building your empire through what ever means necessary so that you can quickly get some of the brightest medical minds on the planet to create that virus that targets those who've got the horrifying cheating gene in them.

If there would be billions of people who were to die from this air born virus that targets the cheating gene - yes yes yes... I know its tragic and sad that billions of people would die... and all that... "stuff" ... but think of it this way! You will save all of humanity!

Just imagine a world without cheaters! Doesn't it sound wonderful? :)

You will never have to worry about finding out that your new lover is a cheater because they will all be dead! Someone who will have this horrible / undesirable dirty DNA running around all over the place won't exist any more! :D

Also you might want to target those who have got the stupidity gene as well while we are at it (hmm but they more than likely the 2 go hand in hand)..

I wonder if the gene for stupidity is linked with the cheater gene? Most than likely does!

Hehehehe lol guys I am only kidding hehe just trying to make you laugh and lighten things up a bit here :D

Hopefully I am being helpful and productive in trying to make you smile with a laugh or 2 :)

How are you doing @MICHELLE BRYANT are you doing all right dear?

I hope you are doing okay please let me know how you are doing.
 
Zigman66 said:
Another thing to remember: While doing things like confronting him with evidence, letting him know what an ass he is, or any other acts of vengeance or retribution may give you a feeling of satisfaction in the short term the longer game plan will be much more satisfying if you refrain from those. Imagine how absolutely aggravating it will be for him if you do nothing to show a reaction in any way, showing him that he now means as much to you as apparently you did to him. That's why it is imperative that you continue as tho nothing has changed while you get everything set that you need to. Then simply have divorce papers served on him with added notice that any contact he needs to make with you be done thru your attorney. I would further suggest you either change your phone number (trust me, although it can be inconvenient, it will be well worth the effort), or block his number (which he could get around by calling you from a different phone). Doing this, you will be free of the heartache of additional mind games and it will have the added bonus of driving him nuts not being able to exert any more control over you in any way. If necessary, don't rule out a restraining order depending on how he reacts. Letting go of the hurt and anger is not easy and I am not trying to present it as such but being on my third and final marriage I have definitely learned what to do and NOT do!
One more thing: People develop patterns and tend to go for what's familiar. So make sure you self-examine for any patterns that could put you in this same spot again, such as going for a particular type of person or situation. Asking a close friend to help you figure this out will help because you may not see it yourself.

Good luck!
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You have no idea but you are right on the money saying I pick the same type of man..... literally the same type of man every single time....its a pattern that i Have repeated with every man I have ever dated..... They always lie about the type of man they are...then all of a sudden....BAM..... The true evil shows up and reminds me how stupid I must look to everyone for falling for it yet again...
 
Stinky Stinky thank you for cracking me up on the daily....I haven't reacted at all really just sleep alone on the couch and he stays in the spare room when he's home
..... Sad life I know but I am Biden my time....lawyers handling it ... Thank u all for lifting me up without even knowing me.... I appreciate all of u
 
Zigman66 said:
Another thing to remember: While doing things like confronting him with evidence, letting him know what an ass he is, or any other acts of vengeance or retribution may give you a feeling of satisfaction in the short term the longer game plan will be much more satisfying if you refrain from those. Imagine how absolutely aggravating it will be for him if you do nothing to show a reaction in any way, showing him that he now means as much to you as apparently you did to him. That's why it is imperative that you continue as tho nothing has changed while you get everything set that you need to. Then simply have divorce papers served on him with added notice that any contact he needs to make with you be done thru your attorney. I would further suggest you either change your phone number (trust me, although it can be inconvenient, it will be well worth the effort), or block his number (which he could get around by calling you from a different phone). Doing this, you will be free of the heartache of additional mind games and it will have the added bonus of driving him nuts not being able to exert any more control over you in any way. If necessary, don't rule out a restraining order depending on how he reacts. Letting go of the hurt and anger is not easy and I am not trying to present it as such but being on my third and final marriage I have definitely learned what to do and NOT do!
One more thing: People develop patterns and tend to go for what's familiar. So make sure you self-examine for any patterns that could put you in this same spot again, such as going for a particular type of person or situation. Asking a close friend to help you figure this out will help because you may not see it yourself.

Good luck!
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Thank you so look much.... I am greatful
 
dan330 said:
run.... dont look back.


be happy ... then happiness will find you.

(i am working on the same thing. wish me luck) (although there is no cheating involved here)
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Oh and good luck... I hope you get awarded (sounds stupid ...awarded for spouse being unfaithful) everything u ask for.
 
MICHELLE BRYANT said:
I pick the same type of man..... literally the same type of man every single time....its a pattern
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Yep.

MICHELLE BRYANT said:
...reminds me how stupid I must look to everyone for falling for it yet again...
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Nope.


My mother lived her whole live picking "broken" men. She stuck with my father for far too many years before he became so much of a jerk that she had to end it. It took her a long time before she met someone again, and when she did they were all either needy or came with a lot of baggage. I think she thought she could "fix" them, but in the end, they all pushed her until she had to kick them out.

There were some who might have felt sorry for her, or didn't understand why she wasn't finding the good guys (except for the fact that most of the "good guys" were taken and she would never have even considered going there), but nobody ever thought she was stupid for her choices in companionship.

You might want to try a little counselling to take an introspective look and maybe break from your old habits.
 
lunatic59 said:
Nope.


My mother lived her whole live picking 'broken' men. She stuck with my father for far too many years before he became so much of a jerk that she had to end it. It took her a long time before she met someone again, and when she did they were all either needy or came with a lot of baggage. I think she thought she could 'fix' them, but in the end, they all pushed her until she had to kick them out.

There were some who might have felt sorry for her, or didn't understand why she wasn't finding the good guys (except for the fact that most of the 'good guys' were taken and she would never have even considered going there), but nobody ever thought she was stupid for her choices in companionship.

You might want to try a little counselling to take an introspective look and maybe break from your old habits.
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Already got that ball rolling.lol thanks again.
 
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