Help Bluetooth connects and reconnects on evo spontaneously

[Stacy1013]

I just got a 2012 Chrysler Town & Country with Uconnect bluetooth. The phone constantly shows headset connected and headset disconnected. This is VERY frustrating. I've read everything I can think of to read. I have the HTC 4G Evo paired just fine.

Model # PC36100
Hardware version 0003
Bluetooth 2.1 + EDR
Android Version 2.3.5
Baseband version 2.15.00.12.19
Kernel version 2.6.35.10-g4b48446 - htc-kernel@and18-2 #1 12/21/11
Build # 4.67.651.3.CL239674 release keys
Software # 4.67.651.3
Browser version WebKit/533.1
PRI Version 2.33_033
PRL Version 60686

I hope someone has thoughts - I went through and did EVERY update possible on my EVO, (I have not tried resetting it *yet*). I went into settings -> dock and have auto-launch and auto-connect enabled as well I set the default device to Uconnect.

another thing I noticed is that I have the options for uconnect and I enabled Phone and disabled media, but media always 'enables' without my intervention.

please help

 

[Stacy1013]

One thought could my blue tooth head phones for the VES be interferring with my uconnect connection? Anyone have an experience with that?