Personally, I'd skip the Droid incredible.
I'm not a big fan of Sense. In addition, Sense breaks the ability to sync multiple exchange accounts.
Add in the fact that with the Incredible, I see duplicate contacts all through my contact list (after syncing 1 exchange, 1 imap because no two exchange accounts supported, and 2 gmail accounts), where as on my droid i have no duplicate contact problems...
Personally, I really wish they had a stock android OS version of the incredible for Verizon. When is the nexus one coming, i can't wait.
Sense UI is broken, IMO.