I didn't read the entire thread, so I'll try to address your concerns point by point in case you haven't already made your decision. For what it's worth, I also recommend the iPhone to people who want a basic smartphone that just works, and is easy to use. Android is for those who want more features and don't mind the learning curve that comes with it. Now, onto your points.
1. I need to state right now that I have no plans to root or Jailbreak this phone. I will more then likely take the phone as is.
First, I want to make it clear that jailbreak and root are not the same thing. Jailbreak is more like loading a custom ROM. Rooting is generally a one-click thing that gives you the equivalent of admin rights on your phone, and it can be undone. That's all.
With that said, Android without root allows for more user customization of the UI and functionality than the iPhone with or without jailbreak. If you like the iPhone UI, get it. If you want to change it, get Android.
2. I plan to use this thing alot for Games and Apps. I dont want a OS that has a bunch of BS Apps and games.
The iPhone and Android app stores have a similar variety of apps, but the iPhone wins in games hands down. Now, the Amazon App Store for Android does have some solid, exclusive games, but it's still not up to par with the iPhone just yet.
3. I want a phone that will continuely be supported with OS updates.
The iPhone will be supported for 2-3 years after purchase, or the length of your contract. A high-end HTC appears to be supported for 2 years now as well, but I wouldn't trust the other Android OEMs just yet.
4. I want a OS thats polished and funtional.
iPhone or an HTC phone with Sense UI.
5. I do have a investment in Itunes, but more then likely will be doing most of my music listening on my Ipod Classic. However, I would still like to put a few songs on teh phone or MP4 videos I downloaded. Ease of use of dropping in this stuff from my computer onto the phone is a plus.
You can either sync your iPhone as a 2nd iTunes device, or you can drag and drop music to your Android phone. There are also supposedly workarounds to sync your Android device with iTunes, but I prefer drag and drop regardless.
Now, I also need to address some concerns I have over Android that maybe some users can clear up or back up:
1. I hear that the Android market is a wild west with little quality control.
To a degree, yes. This is partly spin by Apple and their zealots, because Google doesn't block or remove apps that change the base functionality (IE, customize) the device. On an Android phone, you're free to do this. However, when it comes to malicious apps, they do it retroactively, whereas Apple catches most of them before release.
2. Im afraid that Android wont get the great games and apps that Itunes does. Because Itunes seems to be the most publicised with its great stuff, so it seems they have more of the big name stuff from the big name devs.
The big name developers are moving to Android in droves. Just look at Rovio (Angry Birds), EA Mobile (Need for Speed, Sims, etc.), and Gameloft among others. However, Capcom and Square are still exclusive to the iPhone with talk of both coming to Android.
3 I am afraid that Android dosent get as poilished apps as Iphone does because Android is open source and Iphone is closed.
Open/closed source has nothing to do with this. Apple has a requirement that the app's menu and interface must match the iPhone's. This makes every app feel integrated. Google doesn't have this requirement, so the developer will make their app look however they want. So, many apps coming from the iPhone look exactly like their iPhone counterpart, while others get an improved menu system.
4. I have AT&T and am afraid that theyre arent any Android phones on tehir that are as good as what a Iphone 5 would be (of course this is probaly best suited to answer when we know what the heck Iphone 5 is.)
The Galaxy S II will be competitive with the iPhone 5 in hardware, release around the same time, and has an excellent user interface that some feel is better than Sense UI. Also, by then, we should see the Amazon app store on AT&T phones.
5. I hear from people that the big reason to choose Android over Iphone is for the Rooting aspect. Well, I dont want to do this, so does that mean its probaly not a good idea to get a Android over the Iphone?
Rooting is pointless for the average person. It's not even needed anymore for free wifi tethering on many phones. It's never been needed for playing emulators of legacy consoles. It's pretty much just a gateway drug to loading custom ROMs these days (although it still has its uses).
Basically, if you get an Android phone, ask yourself, "Self, is there anything I want to do with this phone that I currently cannot do?" If the answer is "yes," then root. If the answer is "no," then leave it alone.
basicaly my fears stem from the fact that Android isnt as Mass Market loved as Iphone.
Therefore Itunes has a better chance of getting great stuff as opposed to Android. theyres comfort in going with the popular thing.
I sort of disagree. Android is like the PC, whereas iPhone is like a console (not a MAC, just read on). The PC (Android) has greatly outsold the console (iPhone), so you'd think there's a larger target audience for games. But, due to limitless hardware and software configurations, the console (iPhone) is an easier target for games/apps. However, that is quickly changing, and Android's app development is very robust these days.
Anyway, I would ask that even though you guys love your android phones that you would please be willing to suggest Iphone if you think itll suite my needs I listed better. basicaly be as non biased as you can and give me some solid advice.
My wife has the iPhone 4 and I have the HTC Droid Incredible. I'd recommend the iPhone for you in a heartbeat.