Kind of hard to understand the OP.
Hey, I realize we're ALL eager to get any and all updates... I purchased the original G1, on day one that Android OS was released, so I know about waiting for updates! Oh, and let me tell you, the original OS was lacking in a MAJOR way! We didn't have video camera, no on screen keyboard !, no maps with voice turn by turn direction, very unpolished, etc. etc.
They release updates in small batches to make sure that if there are any bugs, that EVERYONE doesn't have problems! It seems that there was a problem with this update, and I, for one, am certainly glad they released it to a very few number of people, found the problem, fixed the problem, and are now releasing it!
I've never owned an iPhone, but take a look at the time between updates/improvements on the iOS and on the Android OS! It's like night and day!
I've read that Gingerbread will be coming to the TB, as well! While I can't wait, I DO hope and expect that when it's ready, it'll be released to a small, test group... Verizon and Google and HTC will make sure it's stable for a few days, and then start to release it to everyone.