Before becoming disabled, I did indeed have quite a comfortable income (in the six figures). I feel very blessed to have had that kind of career, but at the same time it's extremely sad for me to think that it's all in the past.
I would trade my SSDI for going back to work
in a heartbeat. And the $1 million dollar house, that never had a mortgage, I'm about to inherit [when my mom dies...which I keep hoping won't be soon...but she's under end-of-life hospice care, so...] will be nice, and I feel blessed about that, too, but I'd still prefer being able to work again. Selling the house I bought in Dallas, and paid the mortgage on every month for 18 years, was really difficult and sad for me. It was MINE. This house isn't.
Anyway, back to cars... I've only owned Toyotas, all with manual transmissions, since 1985, and every one shifted like a dream. I cannot recall ever accidentally downshifting to the wrong gear in any of them. The only remotely--and I really mean REMOTELY!--related problem I've ever had in all that time was needing to replace the pad on the clutch pedal.
I don't know what your life situation is, but there's always time to make changes. Because of pregnancies and a near-fatal illness culminating in a hysterectomy @ 22, I wasn't able to go to college at the 'normal' time. I was 26 when I started college--and fully intended to be a physician. I spent 5 years killing myself to make the best grades, with honors, in pre-med, only to decide to totally switch career paths...and that's how I got into the UNIX, then Linux, programming and system administration career that was so good to me. So you never know. You may be working at a gas station now, but what about tomorrow? next week? next month? next year? You're clearly a smart guy, so the sky's the limit.