Yeah, good point. Not sure what your finances are like, or your intention with the car. Buying used with cash, buying new with cash, financing new/used, etc, and its none of my business. But if your gonna buy used with cash and want to mod, either buy something unmolested from a family or older owner, or buy something with a blown motor dirt cheap, and build it the way you want to. If your just looking for a daily driver, no real modifications, then I guess my suggestions are the same, buy something that was well cared for, or new. IMHO, and while not always true, avoid the temptation to buy a "great priced" used car with an exhaust, intake, blow off valve, turbo timer, boost controller, etc... no matter how much the person selling it to you says it's never been beat on... 99% chance it definitely was. I've made that mistake a few times, and you end up buying someone else's basket case and problems. In your head looking at it, your like, awesome, it already has an exhaust and that saves me $1200 out of my pocket... maybe true, but it won't save you from a motor rebuild because the kid had a habit of over revving the engine at every stop light. I had a 91 Talon TSi awd, I bought it for like $800 with a blown motor. After putting a rebuilt motor in it, and even buying all the extra parts I wanted, I was only $4000 into a basically new car that I loved, was fast as hell, and I knew it top to bottom. Thing was AWD, turbo, great year round daily driver. And this was in like 1999, used prices on a running one was still like 5-6k, so I was actually in a much better car mechanically and financially then buying one out of an auto trader.
Also, lots of vehicles offer awd now. Have you looked into others. Just because its not on this weeks episode of Top Gear, or Fast and Furious 47, doesn't mean it won't have the things you want, or won't perform the way you'd like it too. You could be greatly surprised by vehicles you didn't really think of before. That new Hyundai Genesis 4door has a v8 option with more power than a Mustang V8. The new Scion frs/Subaru brz, while only rwd, is like the best thing out right now, how badly do you need awd? I live in Worcester Ma, so I know the weather well too, but how often are you going to actually be driving in 3ft of snow? BMW has had AWD for a while. Audi is great for the cross between, speed/performance and luxury. Even a 300c or Chargers, can be dirt cheap used but are awd with luxury and lots of room. An RT will definitely keep ya up to speed. The new Kia is luxurious beyond belief. Its like $80k, but people are actually buying them to be driven/chauffeured around in, no joke, even over their Rolls Royce. (Not a joke either, check out Kias website). Just saying, keep your eyes and options wide open until you can honestly limit your options down to a couple cars. Then, focus on the ones you can't live without. Too many people buy off impulse or what is popular at the moment.
Also, look ahead a year or two. See a concept car that you LOVE, and is going to be made into full production? Are you going to buy a Evo X now, only to want to trade it in for the new sti or evo xi in 6 months? Be sure. People often do this and end up under water on their cars value and pay through the nose to have the next best thing, rather than wait 90 days. Happens with smartphones daily. How many of you have the iPhone 5 and are wanting or about to buy the 5s. Or galaxy 4, waiting for the 5 announcements? Exactly. I've dine it too many times, only to want to kick my own ass.
Again, just do your research on what cars you want, when your SURE you know what they are. Join dedicated forums for them. Learn the issues with them and what to look for. Sometimes those forums are also where tou can find the best deals, and looking through the owners post, you can basically see what has been done to car. Maintenance, mechanics, mods, replacement items, warranty things, recall items, if its been raced and where, see if he's an actual enthusiast and cares about the car, or is it his weekend warrior. It can have better history than a carfox... I mean, carfax, lol.