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HEY! I'm not a homo! I just haven't asked out a girl... I mean there is a girl I like, but I just haven't asked her out, well as in like boyfriend, girlfriend way at any rate... :/
 
I think too much... I just think of what if sh says no... :/ I need to stop and I keep telling myself I'm gonna, but in the end I just can't.
 
Even if she says no at least you tried and you are in the same place you are now, if she says yes then you are in a better place :D
 
Start with a compliment about her, make sure it is nice
not "looking at your chest makes me...;)
something truthful maybe a little embellished. I would focus on a small detail (eyes, hair, voice...) pick what seems natural to you. Assuming you are friends with her try to start a conversation with her and instead of just saying "Will you go out with me" pick out a date of some sort, seeing a movie is good. Try to make it something you would both like. Don't do it in public with people around or over the phone. Try to seem confident but not cocky.
 
ok, so how should I ask say after a movie? I have taken her to 2 movies before, and was gonna ask her, but I get nervous over what to say, and can't do it...
 
So after you go to the movie be honest with her. Say that you like her and wanted to know if she felt the same about you. You can elaborate on what you feel you should. The last time I asked a girl out (who happens to be the mother of my children and crazy as a bat) I told her something along the lines that she is stunning and I enjoy spending time with her but would like to spend more time with her so I could get to know her more.

Of course flash forward 5 years and I am taking care of 2 kids and we haven't seen her in 8 months now...ahh love, don't be discouraged by this last part ;)
 
Hmmm ok... I guess I can give that a shot... Too bad I don't have a car and live like a 2 hour bus ride away which means I only have time when I either have a short shift in the morning or don't work... :/ Thanks for the advice. :D *brofist* lol.
 
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