I was complaining that the only way to listen to a message no matter how you set it was via the speakerphone speaker. Well looky here... Guess google isn't as open as we'd thought.
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If anyone has a spare invite to GV, I would gladly give it a shot.

Nevermind I'm a dipsh1t. I just tested it one more time... I was using my wife's phone when I was testing last night... I'd not used google voice before cause the Blackberry client was worthless... The Android client sucks much less...
Anyway as for the test my wife must have had her headset turned on. I wasn't listening to the hand set just waiting for a while and then saying test test test. It was quiet cause the mic was in the other room...
Just did a test again and all is golden. Guess I'll drop youmail.
I've got google voice (and invites) but the service does a pretty crappy job of recording the files. The volume was really really low and I could barely hear what was being said. Plus I can't set the length of time before it picks up and so my work phone picks up to grab a voice mail before Google Voice does. So now I just set it so that when I'm not here at the office it doesn't forward to my desk phone. Still yet its annoying.