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If they installed some hidden app to do this you might be able to see it in Settings -> Manage Apps and/or you might be able to see if when you look at active processes.
If you are concerned that this has happened, do a factory reset on the phone and the suspect app will disappear. You'll also need to set up your phone again, connect it to the wireless carrier, and re-install all of your apps and data.