Hi Hank, and welcome to AF.
The hallmark of android is flexibility - most things are doable if you are willing to give it a try - and if you jailbreak your iPhone, where Apple try to block the holes more actively than any Android manufacturer does, I'm guessing that you are

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The best place to get advice on your specific device is in the device forum, in your case
Samsung Galaxy Note - Android Forums. Out of the box an android has some of the features of a jailbroken iPhone, but if you want to remove system applications (including bloat that comes with it) you will want to root it (i.e. gain superuser/administrator access). The device forum has a subforum "
all things root" where such things are discussed. Tricks for rooting are usually specific to a device, or a group of devices, so that's the best place to ask. Do read the sticky post in that forum before asking, as it should answer common questions. The Note is quite new, but there seem to be a few threads on rooting it there already, and the main Galaxy Note forum looks quite active to me (I have an HTC Desire, so don't visit that one normally, but have just had a quick peek through).
Questions about what applications are available (with root or without), and general android tips and tricks, will be covered in the general Android Discussion forums as well as the device forum.
This is a friendly and helpful forum, and I hope you find it that way. If you do have any problems, just drop me (or any other guide or mod) a message - we're here to help.
Edit: Indeed while I was typing that some of our other forum members were proving that point for me!