I hear you,
@olbriar, all around. It's in my will and trust that any pets I have when I die must remain in this house, with proper care; they won't ever end up in a shelter or moving to someone else's home. As you might guess, Joy Noelle was the only pet explicitly mentioned by name in those documents... It was made very clear how special she
is was, and that remaining in this house was an absolute. (I still can't believe she's gone.) Alas, my remaining pets are so old, their days are probably numbered anyway.
I totally understand not wanting to board Bella--I've never boarded a pet in my life, not for travel or anything else. Sure, I've had MANY, many overnight (or longer) vet stays, but those were for medical reasons, not boarding. And I really hear you when it comes to how upsetting staying at the vet can be... Travel with a cat is certainly possible--I've made cross-country trips with cats and dogs--but not something I recommend. Far too many opportunities to lose them, and then what? You're hundreds or thousands of miles from home, ugh, the very thought terrifies me. When I HAD to drive cross-country with cats, there were *strict* rules about opening car doors and so on. I'll never be doing THAT again!
My household is down to a 15(?)-year-old dog, a 15-year-old cat, and a 16(?)-year-old cat. Question marks because these rescues' ages were purely estimates. For all I know, Big Brian MIGHT be older than Joy Noelle! I've had him for 11 years; my vet and I concurred at the time that he was a mature adult, *probably* around 5, but give or take a little either way. He could be 19+ now, but I don't think so. Oh, he's my first FIV+ cat--no problems with it at all, so far. He has the most beautiful, sky blue eyes! No collar yet in this pic, as he was still brand-new (to me):
Having a nice nap four years ago!
BTW, Big Brian and Joy Noelle were sworn enemies. They HATED each other! Poor little Joy...at her highest weight (10 lbs) she was never a match for Brian (15+ since I've had him). Does everyone know that I YELL at my children? Yep, I do. You should've heard me yelling "BIG BRIAN! YOU LEAVE MY LITTLE GIRL ALONE!!!" He was terrified.
Not!