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Yeahha said:
Sometimes not being drunk enough is a good thing ;)...keeps one from making dumb decisions...hmm this looks like it should be the right number...;)...



That's good I suppose. As long as the hiring manager isn't that one guy.
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Haha no bad decisions made that night :)

And no I specifically asked her if he was and she said no
 
I can't say the same...I've made plenty of bad drunk decisions...the latest one being that night...one before that was likely what caused me to need to fix the lawnmower...

Him not hiring is a good thing right:)
 
him not hiring is good, but he still could be part of the review process. i'm sure its not just one guy reviewing all the resumes and whatnot. i did submit my newly revised resume so its all pretty and ATC oriented (thank you guy who never talked to me again after St Pattys Day)

i think if i get the job i'm going to text him thanking him again for that resume. thats about all he was good for!
 
yea pretty much. met up with him st pattys day, told me sun, mon and tues he was still feeling sick (claimed food poisoning) and havent heard from him since. but apparently we are still FB friends cuz i saw his update from last night.
 
Yeah I remember you talking about him...pretty crappy of a guy to do that...would be nice if he wasn't interested to just say so...don't blame you for telling him that was the only thing he is good for...but what if he still has food poisoning:p
 
well considering the last thing i said to him was "hope you feel better soon cuz i'd like to see you again" and its been 3 weeks??? yea, he isnt interested anymore. but he shouldve just said so. typical guy thing to do though. wasnt the first time its been done
 
Guess I've always tried to be respectful and tell someone outright if it wasn't gonna work or I'm not interested instead of giving excuses...that has always been easier for me than hitting on someone...maybe I'm just odd...
 
no, its just called being respectful and a nice person. not wasting their time. i do the same thing. my ex, a "nice guy", wouldnt even do that. i told him recently that i felt bad for breaking up with him and kinda regretted it and all he could say was "oi, now you've put me in a weird emotional situation"
 
Well I can kinda see what he was trying to say. May not have been the best way to say it. I don't know how much of a relationship you guys had but if he was invested and you broken it off he has to justify why he shouldn't be invested in the relationship. Then you saying that to him would cause confusion...just my 2
 
we dated for 6 months. one thing he did tell me was "you broke up with me once, so you'll probably do it again. time has taught me that"

what brought this all on was him telling me that he was dating some girl he dated on and off prior to his ex before me. and that it was "nice" to not be lonely and go out with someone. so i realized we actually never had "date nights". we went out with friends, but it was never just us.
 
so him being a nice guy and all decided to let you know he moved on and is having fun? Sounds like you told him what he wanted to hear more or less...

...my wife texted me yesterday...she has found yet another guy to give her money for whatever she does to get money from guys...I really wish she wouldn't contact me the year for separation is almost up...
 
yea. i guess i did. but whatever. friend of mine texted me earlier and told me he was hitting on girls after i left. guess i now know where he stands and his "weird emotional situation" isnt so weird or emotional afterall. nice guy my ass....

i'm so glad AZ doesnt have that law. VA does and my sister had to do it when she wanted a divorce.
 
Don't feel bad about it :D you are awesome and he sounds like a tool. He was ready to move on before you broke up with him from what it sounds like. Had you gotten back together with him it doesn't sound like there would have been anything there that wasn't there already and it could have just hurt you in the long run...

Yeah wish NC didn't have it either...Not subjecting myself or my kids to that hell again...why do I need to wait a full year :rolleyes:
 
Yeahha said:
Don't feel bad about it :D you are awesome and he sounds like a tool. He was ready to move on before you broke up with him from what it sounds like. Had you gotten back together with him it doesn't sound like there would have been anything there that wasn't there already and it could have just hurt you in the long run...

Yeah wish NC didn't have it either...Not subjecting myself or my kids to that hell again...why do I need to wait a full year :rolleyes:
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well it still sucks. for me to admit i made a mistake and regret it speaks volumes. but whatever. maybe its a sign i need to stay single.

i dont understand that law either, but i think it has something to do with forcing couples to either work things out or make sure its what they want
 
angldvl81 said:
well it still sucks. for me to admit i made a mistake and regret it speaks volumes. but whatever. maybe its a sign i need to stay single.

i dont understand that law either, but i think it has something to do with forcing couples to either work things out or make sure its what they want
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I am not sure you made a mistake...if he was that prepared to move on sounds like you did yourself a favor and don't have to worry about being cheated on...at least IMO...as for the staying single part I have never put too much faith in signs about what I should/shouldn't do if you wish to stay single do it because it is what you want.

And if it is for people to work stuff out then it hasn't worked for me...I don't see it having a chance of working either.
 
Yeahha said:
I am not sure you made a mistake...if he was that prepared to move on sounds like you did yourself a favor and don't have to worry about being cheated on...at least IMO...as for the staying single part I have never put too much faith in signs about what I should/shouldn't do if you wish to stay single do it because it is what you want.

And if it is for people to work stuff out then it hasn't worked for me...I don't see it having a chance of working either.
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oh he wouldnt have ever cheated. he just doesnt like being lonely, hence him dating alot now.

the working out thing usually never works. once the seperation is filed they pretty much do their own thing, act divorced then get divorced. thats what my sisters ex did. mine was filed in may i believe, and over in aug. 60 calendar days for a no contest divorce.
 
Ah, most the guys I know who date a lot will date a lot regardless of relationship status...

I hope mine goes smoothly...wish it was over...
 
Well 5 years is quite a while think about all that has gone on in those 5 years...hell for me 5 years ago I was an unemployed teenager who just found out his ex who was a lesbian at the time was pregnant:eek:
 
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