strange contacs problem [xperia pro]

[Alex4nderP]

i want to start by saying my english sucks.
i'm new to this forum so im sorry if i did/do anything wrong.

So let's get started!

so recently I bought a new phone, a Sony Ericsson Xperia Pro.
and this is my first android phone.

and here's the problem:

as you can see i only have about 20 contacts in my list.

and when i go do my homescreen and when i hold my finger down
it gives me the option to add something to the homescreen and then i press "shortcuts"

and the i click on "Direct message"

and as you can see i have alot of numbers.
i dont really know where these numbers come from, facebook i guess quz all this numbers/contacts is almost all my facebook friends.
and i'm not sure but someone told me you can't sync numbers from facebook quz it dosen't allow it for some reason.

i looked at my friends phone today (Xperia Play) and he has exact the same problem!

and when a number from this list texts me it says its name and that it's i my contact list, (but it's not)

so can i move this contacts to my contact list?

any help would be great!

and again, sorry if i did something wrong.

thanks!