ALL men are oblivious
Sometimes men are oblivious because we just are. That's our job.
Sometimes it's charming, especially when we don't mean it to be, or, so we're told with even more oblivious looks on our faces, I'm sure.
Sometimes we aren't at all oblivious, but do it hoping that the lack of attention to the problem is helpful to you.
And some guys are oblivious in a way that masquerades as the rest of us and tries to fit in with the rest of us, but we can tell the difference even if it's one of those things where women can't, and we're not allowed to hurt those guys by law, even though the thought definitely occurs to us. No, really.
Every guy reading this either knows what I'm talking about, or hopes that it's not really true.
Women may well be frustrated by men being oblivious. We can dig it. We are frustrated for when the two essential versions for it aren't as obvious to you as it is to us.
Given that no one is frustrated with me, I'm only speaking of a theory, of course.
