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Just curious but do any guys here like BBW

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jmcook79

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I've been attracted to big women all my life, and I mean exclusively attracted to big women. What most people call fat I consider a little chubby lol. Most of my girlfriends, my ex wife, and my wife have all been somewhere between 250lbs-350lbs. Typically the bigger the better as long as she can actually walk lol. I know this sounds sick to many people, but it is what it is.

People always bring up the health issue, and I know it's not healthy to be overweight but honestly I can't change who I'm attracted to any more than I can change my eye color. I was born this way. I have memories as far back as 5 years old of just finding big women pretty, even though at that age it obviously wasn't any kind of sexual feeling.

If you're going to respond and say I'm disgusting, crazy etc. don't bother. I have thick skin on this subject because I've dealt with it all my life. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it.

I'm just curious if there are others on this board like me. My theory is that many men are, but they are "in the closet". Otherwise you wouldn't be able to find literally thousands of BBW porn movies and pictures on the internet.
 
I personally.. think usa needs to go on a general diet.
going to visit other countries.. really opens your eyes to how usa eats too much.

I am not attracted to fat women. I do like thin.. but ok with a little baby fat.
have dated women 30lbs over weight, because of a great personality.
 
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"

Through the years it's a never ending change of what is considered beautiful. Mae West was a sex symbol in the 30's. Twiggy was a sex symbol of the 60's. It just shows that even the masses change their idea of what's attractive. So.. why get caught up in going with the flow?

I've always been attracted to short women. I'm 6' and my wife is 4'10" lol. Mutt and Jeff sorta thing. I get it. Follow your heart man.
 
Can't say anything about that topic, but here is another thing. I have 2 girl friends, who are overweight and they really struggling with dating and many other things. They have great personalities, well educated, they were in top 10 by senior year high school average grades. I wish there were more guys like you. More girls would be so much happier.

As myself I'm 6ft tall and 220lb, not a skinny guy, but since I work out my body seems like its in very decent shape. Never had issues attracting girls.
 
olbriar said:
"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"

Through the years it's a never ending change of what is considered beautiful. Mae West was a sex symbol in the 30's. Twiggy was a sex symbol of the 60's. It just shows that even the masses change their idea of what's attractive. So.. why get caught up in going with the flow?

I've always been attracted to short women. I'm 6' and my wife is 4'10" lol. Mutt and Jeff sorta thing. I get it. Follow your heart man.
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Look at the media, you mostly see skinny people on tv. Another issue is that most of them look so good. Many people don't realize that movie stars spend millions of dollars to look good not to mention they have a ton of make up on.

Since most people don't have their own opinion on thoughts, they just follow the main stream. I've met some very pretty chubby girls in my life and I think they look much prettier that most skinny girls.
 
Completely misread the thread title: read the OP thinking, what has this got to do with cars :confused:

Nice of you to share and all that, but I don't see what the big deal is - so you like big women. Good for you .. and the big women, I guess.
 
jmcook79 said:
:thumbup: I must say I'm impressed with the maturity level on this forum. On most other forums where I posted this in the lounge area it quickly turned into bashing either me or big women in general.
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My Ummm Baby Mama was 365pds and i didn't have a problem with her weight , man if that's what you like then go for it and never let anyone try to change you :thumb:
 
it is a highly untapped market.
raises your chances of success.

(edited this post many times.. so that NO puns are miss understood)
 
My addition to this thread would be from the opposite direction. People should realize that there are some people who like whatever. So rather than change yourself, find someone who likes you as you are. The example I might give would be boob jobs. Not everyone is attracted to large boobs.

On this topic, the reason to lose weight wouldn't be to find a mate, it would be for health reasons.
 
SiempreTuna said:
Completely misread the thread title: read the OP thinking, what has this got to do with cars :confused:

Nice of you to share and all that, but I don't see what the big deal is - so you like big women. Good for you .. and the big women, I guess.
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The big deal is that while there are many men like me, we are still in the minority. Most people, at least where I live, look on my attraction to big women with disgust. My friends accept it, but most don't understand it. Many people laugh at it. Imagine being at work and constantly having co-workers point out some thin hot woman and having to say "she's not my type" and then get a look of confusion. One guy even asked if I was gay, and I said no I just like big women.

I work at a place where there is a really high turnover, so I meet new people all the time and the topic inevitably comes up, and it's usually met with shock and disbelief. I have to explain to people all the time that no, I didn't settle for a fat chick and no I'm not attracted to all types of women. I'm ONLY attracted to big women. Period.

Now I have many friends and co-workers that are dating or married to big women but it's either because when they first got together she was thin, or because they like her personality and overlook her weight, or they are just settling. I also know a few guys who are "in the closet" about it. The love big women but would die of shock if anyone ever found out. They date thin women and find a fat one on the side.

Maybe it's because I live in a small town where unless you're just like everyone else, you're looked at like an alien. People even find it strange that I like electronic music and that some of it is from Europe. Around here, in the small town I live, and in fact the 3 neighboring counties, if someone doesn't fit into a clearly defined stereotype they are looked at as weird.

It may not be a big deal to some people, but being known as "the guy that likes fat chicks" is something I've had to deal with my whole life.
 
jmcook79 said:
The big deal is that while there are many men like me, we are still in the minority. Most people, at least where I live, look on my attraction to big women with disgust. My friends accept it, but most don't understand it. Many people laugh at it. Imagine being at work and constantly having co-workers point out some thin hot woman and having to say "she's not my type" and then get a look of confusion. One guy even asked if I was gay, and I said no I just like big women.

I work at a place where there is a really high turnover, so I meet new people all the time and the topic inevitably comes up, and it's usually met with shock and disbelief. I have to explain to people all the time that no, I didn't settle for a fat chick and no I'm not attracted to all types of women. I'm ONLY attracted to big women. Period.

Now I have many friends and co-workers that are dating or married to big women but it's either because when they first got together she was thin, or because they like her personality and overlook her weight, or they are just settling. I also know a few guys who are "in the closet" about it. The love big women but would die of shock if anyone ever found out. They date thin women and find a fat one on the side.

Maybe it's because I live in a small town where unless you're just like everyone else, you're looked at like an alien. People even find it strange that I like electronic music and that some of it is from Europe. Around here, in the small town I live, and in fact the 3 neighboring counties, if someone doesn't fit into a clearly defined stereotype they are looked at as weird.

It may not be a big deal to some people, but being known as "the guy that likes fat chicks" is something I've had to deal with my whole life.
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You can thank the advertising industry and fashion industry for that. From the age of 10 - and nowadays from the age of 6 - we women are BOMBARDED with what we are SUPPOSED to look like. Heck, both my daughters deal with shaming at school even though they are at a very healthy weight and play sports!! I don't have boys, so I don't know if they get the same thing, but I rather think they don't... at least not as much.

I love fashion and I love the industry, but really, they need to show all sizes, shapes and colors of women ... basically real women!
 
It's definitely not as bad for boys and men. Part of the reason I'm so vocal about it is because I want big women to know that there are men out there that appreciate them.
 
who cares what other people think...you are who you are...
you can't, nor should you even try to change or justify to anyone what type of person you are attracted to..If we were all attracted to the exact same thing we would dwindle the gene pool, we would be too similar to procreate and the human race would have died out bazillions of years ago...
there is strength in diversity!
carry on:)
 
huh said:
If we were all attracted to the exact same thing we would dwindle the gene pool, we would be too similar to procreate and the human race would have died out bazillions of years ago...
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I think you're forgetting about the discovery of alcohol. :D
 
I think other people should mind their own business. How bored must you be when you're curious about the love life and bedroom activities of other people. It's shameful that in this supposed age of "freedom", we are still ridiculed for some of the things we like that are supposedly "not normal".

JM: I also think it's sad for some of the "closeted" friends you mentioned that they have to date a thin woman and find a fat one on the side. How awful the BBW must feel :/
 
I know what you mean as far as I'm considered "normal" is a relative term. I also think it's sad about the "closeted" guys. They are just acquaintances, not true friends but either way I thinks it's unfair to both women but especially the BBW.
 
jmcook79 said:
Most people, at least where I live, look on my attraction to big women with disgust. My friends accept it, but most don't understand it. Many people laugh at it. Imagine being at work and constantly having co-workers point out some thin hot woman and having to say "she's not my type" and then get a look of confusion.
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Sorry - I wasn't trying to make light of your feelings of rejection.

jmcook79 said:
I have to explain to people all the time that no, I didn't settle for a fat chick
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:eek:

People say that?!

That's outrageously insulting - both to you and your partner!

jmcook79 said:
Maybe it's because I live in a small town where unless you're just like everyone else, you're looked at like an alien. People even find it strange that I like electronic music and that some of it is from Europe. Around here, in the small town I live, and in fact the 3 neighboring counties, if someone doesn't fit into a clearly defined stereotype they are looked at as weird.
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I'm afraid to say, it sounds like the people with the problem are your neighbours
 
SiempreTuna said:
Sorry - I wasn't trying to make light of your feelings of rejection.



:eek:

People say that?!

That's outrageously insulting - both to you and your partner!



I'm afraid to say, it sounds like the people with the problem are your neighbours
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It's cool no offense taken :) and you're right it is my neighbors that have the problem, I can't wait to move one day. We just have to wait until our finances are better and the time is right.
 
I don't know why anyone would judge someone for their looks, judge them for their personality. For example my brother dates a bigger girl that I don't like. I dislike her because she's an awful person not because of her weight.

I only came here waiting to see trollguy meme.
 
I couldn't care less whenever I've seen a guy with a really large woman. Would never comment or whatever, that's awful.

Look on the bright side though, you're in a country with the largest obese population!
 
Omar Days said:
I couldn't care less whenever I've seen a guy with a really large woman. Would never comment or whatever, that's awful.

Look on the bright side though, you're in a country with the largest obese population!
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Yeah and the area I live has so many big women I'm like a kid in a candy store lol. Good thing my wife isn't the jealous type or she would be watching me all the time.
 
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