FYI to everyone, I had the update fail 3 times on my first phone. When it finally went through, I got the same com.google.apps force close, PLUS I got a phone.android (I think) error. After this, only about 25% of my incoming calls actually rang, the rest would go to voicemail without telling me I had a missed call.
So I went into one Verizon store and was told I couldn't even speak to someone until I'd done 2 factory resets and that I couldn't do it there because my battery was low (I guess letting me borrow a charger would have inconvenienced them). I finally tried a different store and they shipped me a new handset.
I tried it yesterday and it did the EXACT same thing. It downloads the update, restarts, gets about 1/3 of the way through the unpackaging little droid guy screen and freezes there for about 15 minutes before rebooting in 2.1 again.
I've had it. I went to the store AGAIN today and they couldn't get the update to go through either. They wanted to send me another Fascinate, but I've had it. I refused and I'm awaiting shipment tomorrow of my new Droid X.