I was with the Evo, 3vo and LTEvo at launch, engineering s-off with the first, and first day s-off with the other two.
The 3vo blew the doors off the Evo and I've spent the night using it.
I'm not disappointed with this phone.
I'm disappointed with the HTC Jellybean offering.
Features removed and serious defects in the first round.
Besides the roms mentioned earlier we also have Beanstalk, CodefireXperiment (first rom built with the LLVM/Clang toolkit, and actually based on AOSP, not a CM or AOKP derivative), and now Omni is coming.
We had a rapid release with each version of CM with more working and less not working out of the gate with the Evo and 3vo - and less time waiting for updates.
I agree that the Evo was insanely cool.
But I think that a lot of fun flashing included hopping roms to get things that worked - not to mention dealing with CWM not saving 4G keys and the transition to Amon Ra.
And flashing a new kernel wasn't just a cool idea, it was required. Remember when netarchy saved us?
Little of which we suffered here.
Yeah, a lot of devs bailed to the Samsungs and the One.
But looking at the quality of what we do have along with the bases covered, it's not like we're chopped liver up in here.
We had some Sony love early on -
http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=1732323
And we did not have a months long dry era where you couldn't get s-off and we didn't have a host of users find out the hard way that they didn't have permanent s-off, and both happened with the Evo.
Maybe you had more rooting fun than I did but my mileage varies a lot with this phone.