Before you ask: I'm only interested in doing this for my OWN phone 
I bought some NFC tags before I knew that in order to use them the phone had to be out of standby and unlocked. This is a completely reasonable security measure, and I understand why they did it.
That said, can I get around it? How about with root?
I don't have any plans to use Google Wallet, and I really doubt someone will know to try my insecure phone for NFC intrusion, and the advantages would be great for me. I get in and out of my car all day, sometimes as many as 10-12 times, and it would be SO nice if I could just tap my phone to one of my tags and have my music start or stop playing.
I've looked into doing this via other methods like Tasker and things like that, but this really is the best solution for me. If it's not possible, though, so be it. But if it is, I'd like to know!
Thanks for any help!

I bought some NFC tags before I knew that in order to use them the phone had to be out of standby and unlocked. This is a completely reasonable security measure, and I understand why they did it.
That said, can I get around it? How about with root?
I don't have any plans to use Google Wallet, and I really doubt someone will know to try my insecure phone for NFC intrusion, and the advantages would be great for me. I get in and out of my car all day, sometimes as many as 10-12 times, and it would be SO nice if I could just tap my phone to one of my tags and have my music start or stop playing.
I've looked into doing this via other methods like Tasker and things like that, but this really is the best solution for me. If it's not possible, though, so be it. But if it is, I'd like to know!
Thanks for any help!