That point could have been put in the thread in a manner other than with use of the term, "jackass," aimed at another member.
The relative selfishness of wanting a thread closed, pivoting on the user's choice of opening the thread or not based on the thread title, falls aside when we see something contrary to the user agreement we all agreed to as we registered here.
The sexuality expressed in here was mild as the thread title, and quite mild up until the discussion became focussed on gay bars, etc. At that point, in my opinion, the fun of the thread here, loosely based on the use of an Eris to meet people in a bar, ended.
Not a bad Lounge thread, though.