Ouch...

[Vinsanity93]

I forgot how much it hurts when you find out the person you like...has feelings for someone else .

Finals week just got even worse.

 

[Meadroidows]

I forgot how much it hurts when you find out the person you like...has feelings for someone else .

Finals week just got even worse.

I don't know you personally but I know exactly what you're going through. The best thing to do is keep your head up and stay mentally strong. With you having finals week, I wouldn't even stress about the person you like. Finals is more way more important than worrying about a person who doesn't share the same feelings. :thumbup:

 

[h4x0rj3ff]

hang in there bud. in the grand scheme of things she isnt even a blip on the radar... get them grades before you go round chasing tail.

 

[argedion]

why do they call them finals? i mean they plan on giving them to you again next semester! unless you like fail and then they take you out back and shoot you then that would be a final hummmm.


You just had the story of my life i was always "Just a Friend" like I am some puppy dog but i finally did get one who loved me as much as I love her and things have been pretty awesome for us

 

[9to5cynic]

It might actually be a good thing that it's finals week, this way you can focus on your studies to keep your mind busy. That always helps me.

Best of luck.

 

[olbriar]

I'm convinced that there is that special one out there for everyone. You don't have to work at it.. it just clicks. If the person in question has eyes for another.. she's not the one. Just move on. I know it's easier said than done but in the long run... it's sound advice.

 

[dan330]

well..
1st .. get past finals.. do your best.. push her out of your mind. I know it is hard, but you can!

2nd.. did she even know you liked her??? if not.. let her know! after the finals. she might re-evaluate and you might be on top..

 

[Hrethgir]

I'm glad I'm old enough to not have to deal with this kind of drama anymore!

 

[Vinsanity93]

I never actually told her, but I don't think I could have made it any more obvious. I guess we'll see what next semester brings.

 

[dan330]

yeah.. it is surprising what people will miss.. even when obvious.

best to remove all doubt...
i learned from experience... letting them know.. greatly raises your chances.

HINT:
if she puts you in the "friends" category.. she will not see any hints you leave..
you dont want to be there! it is hard to get out of that. so let her know!!! force your way out of the "friends"

 

[pbf98]

I was mourning the death of my girlfriend when a girl started to take interest in me and lead me on to believe she wanted to be with me. Against my better judgement I went along with it.. turned out she was just using me to try and get one of my friends after she realized my friend really didn't want anything to do with her, she dumped me and left me far worse than I was originally was.

But eventually I did find someone that cares very much about me, and believes in everything I do. This someone is always there even when I am at my worst.

The biggest thing to remember is to not let one girl get you down, I too believe that there is someone special for everyone.. but life isn't always the easiest and sometimes it takes a little time before you find that one person that you will know is right.

keep your head up and you'll find the one

 

[Tallmike00]

Been there, done that. My hand wringing did absolutely no good. Moving on was the answer. Also, here are some words from a Rolling Stones song from way, way back when I was in college and experiencing a similar dilemma:

"You can't always get what you want. You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometime
You might find
You get what you need"

Also, do a bit of Googling about "nice guy syndrome" and how to end it. There is much out there to read and heed.

 

[huh]

Been there, done that. My hand wringing did absolutely no good. Moving on was the answer. Also, here are some words from a Rolling Stones song from way, way back when I was in college and experiencing a similar dilemma:

"You can't always get what you want. You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometime
You might find
You get what you need"

Also, do a bit of Googling about "nice guy syndrome" and how to end it. There is much out there to read and heed.

no!!!!! trust me...
dont stop being the "nice guy"...Don't change who you are..
besides dating is NOT about finding what you want..
it's really about learning.. what you DON'T!
take your time...don,t try to worry too much..because
when you do..find each other.. .you will absolutely know it!

 

[dan330]

no!!!!! trust me...
dont stop being the "nice guy"...Don't change who you are..
besides dating is NOT about finding what you want..
it's really about learning.. what you DON'T!
take your time...don,t try to worry too much..because
when you do..find each other.. .you will absolutely know it!

hhhmmm... you words have wisdom..
and they are true...

but.. to get some experience.. so you can better understand what you REALLY want or not want. taste the different flavors before you know which is your fav.

the nice guy.. has a hard time getting to taste the flavors.

to this end.. the nice guy.. is the sad guy.
i am not saying to be the RUDE and UGLY... just not the NICE guy.
it terrible but true... the "not-so-nice guy" does get the girl.
girls want a man not a boy.. they like to be kept on their toes.
if you can make them smile and cry.. they feel more for you!
if they angry at you.. they are feeling something.
they want to make you a better man.. they home their love will change you.
when you are nice to her.. she will notice it more

ok.. i know some/most women are going to hate what i just wrote..
its just sucks that most times.. it is true!


when you do get the girl.. and she is nice to you..
you then can be the nice guy.

 

[huh]

just be yourself...
if you have to pretend.. or try to be be something that you are fundamentally not..
(BTW...nice guy...surpasses d!#K ... exponentially...the more mature most girls get...)

and if she isn't..

RUN!!!!!!!!



know it hurts...been there.... in fact... everyone should go through this stuff....
just be yourself...besides.

it's her loss

 

[huh]

I was mourning the death of my girlfriend when a girl started to take interest in me and lead me on to believe she wanted to be with me. Against my better judgement I went along with it.. turned out she was just using me to try and get one of my friends after she realized my friend really didn't want anything to do with her, she dumped me and left me far worse than I was originally was.

But eventually I did find someone that cares very much about me, and believes in everything I do. This someone is always there even when I am at my worst.

The biggest thing to remember is to not let one girl get you down, I too believe that there is someone special for everyone.. but life isn't always the easiest and sometimes it takes a little time before you find that one person that you will know is right.


keep your head up and you'll find the one

I am ..so very sorry for your loss...
can't even..imagine

..