I'd read the e-mail update--in fact, I was going through old mail and found myself reading previous updates, from last year and early this year...things like 'first outing' and 'out to eat.'Posted an update on Giveforward about current state of money raised and about the second kidney finding a home.

Of course.I didn't mention in there that I put together a 400 photo slide show and had to scour through thousands of pics to find the 400 with Gary in them. Seeing so many pics of a healthy and happy young man is perhaps the saddest and most depressing thing I have ever done.
Couple hundred showed up for layout, the funeral was beautiful...
Is she seeing anyone? Grief counselor, physician, therapist, clergy...? Of course it's normal for her to be deeply grieving at this point, but if you're concerned about her safety you have to act. If you're concerned about her health, make sure she's seeing her doctor and is candid about discussing how she's feeling and everything.The grief is almost unbearable and I'm afraid for my wife....