Terrylbs,
Have you taken a look at this post? Maybe that will help.
http://androidforums.com/droid-support-troubleshooting/13302-solution-syncing-outlook-droid.html
I will contend that standalone Outlook is not a true business messaging system anyways as it is not centralized. Although it does allow for easy individual user mail management it is confined to that role. I have this same problem when dealing with users who have not moved their mail management to a more centralized solution such as the "cloud"(I use that term loosely) or an exchange server. They want to share their mail, calendar, task, etc. but are not utilizing a system built for this.
This responsiblity is not only Google's but Microsoft's. They have more than enough capability to create an Outlook for Android app and build the conduit system for installation on a PC but have choosen instead to develop their own phone in competition with Google. I wouldn't expect either company to cater to the others needs any more than they already have.
Also, realize that this is exactly what BB did when they came onto the scene. They built their own software for the PC and also to integrate with Exchange Server. Except their goal was to reach as many people in the market where Google and MS are only trying to reach "their" customers or push more people to be exclusively "their" customer. If the Blackberry handsets market ever fails I could easily see RIM continue on with something like Blackberry messaging for Android and most likely even IPhone.
I do hope that you are able to find a solution to your issue and continue on with Android as in my own opinion it has so much more to offer than Blackberry(I am a former Blackberry user myself).
In regards to your battery life and freezing issues, I can say I have niether. Battery life hasn't been an issue and freezing was only an issue when I loaded the phone full of useless apps. Once I cleaned it up its been running fine. Also, the Acclaim is a pretty cheap phone so the system resources it has aren't much compared to some of the other Android handsets out there.