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Which ROM. I think they are all fine ROM's (so basically you are not getting an answer).
It depends on what you want. None are 100% bug free.
Sense 3.6. I personally like Blackout the main reason for this is I like Sense 3.6 best. However Blackout, has "deal breaker" issues IMHO:
- No VOIP
- No WiFi hotspot,
- Poor voice call quality
In my case I do not use VOIP much (and when I have to I can us my Wifes phone) and the WiFi hotpsot, and I find voice quality acceptable.
Objectively, if you are not sold on Sense 3.6, there are better options.
Sense 4. I also revisited Virtuous Infinity last week. I think this one has no "deal breaker" issues except this ROM is the slowest of all DHD ROM's I tried. Sense 4 is Sense 4. It keeps on occasionally reminding you that it may be time to buy a newer phone
The scaling issues are still there (original UI was designed for 540 x 960). Some widgets look awkward when resized, full screen weather animations are broken in landscape mode. For the camera you have to disable face detection in the camera. I failed to test HDR and Panorama mode on this ROM.
Nice ROM, but if I like Sense 4 I would go for Sense 4A.
Sense 4A. I think you made a good choice with TrickDroid. If I did not use Peep, I think I would stick with this one.
TrickDroid is has a UI based on Sense 4 A (lite). This results in fixing the scaling issue in VI since the UI comes from a 480 x 800 display. Sense 4 lite runs nicely on our DHD's.
On the other hand, it feels very spartan in some respects. Home screens slide from left to right instead of rotating. You don't get to zoom out and see all your home screens (forgot what you call this). When you press the menu button from the home screen it feels more like GB than ICS. Sense 3.6 still feels faster.
The only issues I have found with TrickDroid so far are the camera issues and the odd non-functioning Barcode scanner, although there may be issues I have no encountered yet.
Oh yeah, I have not been on it long enough to be sure, but it does seem like it consumes a lot of battery power. Decided to restore my Blackout Nandroid and will spend more time on TrickDroid next weekend.
It comes with a lot of very interesting Tweak options. Loading the tweaks is a cumbersome process. Enter recovery and install through a AROMA installer. I don't understand what some of the tweaks are supposed to do.
If you decide you don't like Sense... an interesting project which you can try is to remove Sense via the tweaks.
I would not recommend this a newbie. The install is too difficult if you ask me. But you should manage all this easy enough. I could have flashed 3 ROM's in the time it gets this thing to work well.
AOKP. I am disciple of Sense. You should probably PM Metha23 on this one. I tried two (or was it three) versions of JellyTime (until 8.1). Things are fixed and something something is broken again
The last version I use was fine, with the usual AOKP issues. Camera, video quality and battery life seems to be a tad short of what you get from a Sense based ROM.
I do like JellyTime more than ICS 8.6.1. The notification drawer is the biggest improvement I noticed.