I have been reading the threads on here and different websites on Lithium Ion batteries.
They do
NOT recommend completely discharging (running the phone until it shuts off) frequently. Do it once every 30 charges (or 1 a month) for the purpose of keeping your phone's battery meter calibrated.
Frequently discharging the battery 100% will lead to permanent battery life loss.
Apparently, lithium ion batteries do not mind being charged frequently, but do not like to be left at full (or no) charge for vary long. So, do
NOT let the battery sit completely dead for an extended amount of time and I would not let it sit on the charger after it is fully charged for an extended amount of time (I.E. all night long while you sleep). Both of those can lead to permanent battery life loss.
HTC recommends you charge the battery for 8 hours when you first get it before you do anything to the phone. They recommend you only do this the first time only. I think this is
NOT because the battery needs conditioning (lithium ion batteries do not need to be conditioned and do not have "memory" issues), but because the
PHONE needs to be calibrated correctly. This is why after several charges people are now claiming to get better battery life.
I do not own the phone yet. Haven't bought it, but this is what I am gathering from other members and reading on the web. Lithium ion batteries like to be used (this is why they are great for cell phones, because they are always on). So use the phone and don't hesitate to charge it when it is conveniant for you (as mentioned above, lithium ion batteries do not have "memory" issues. Your battery meter could develop a memory issue though). I personally will wait for it to go below 60% full before I charge (normally). Sometimes I may charge at 68%, then maybe the next time at 52%, then possibly 24%. I would just make sure 1 a month you run it from a full 100% charge down to 0% to calibrate the battery meter on your phone. This way the battery meter will not have any "memory" issues.
On a final note, read the owner's manual and check out the HTC website "help & how-to" section.
http://www.htc.com/us/support/droid-incredible-verizon/help/power-and-battery
I always follow the owner's guide and what the manufacturers suggest. They tested and built the phone, so they should know what works best. I know you can't always follow these guidelines or this advice, but if you try to and work at it, you shouldn't have any problems.