I am personally waiting, but its seems to be a slow process. A lot of people apparently have had success with the force update, but there is always the risk of "bricking" your phone due to some of the steps involved.
It appears the official updates having been pushed out to some phones over the last 24 hours, but I am still waiting.
I am looking forward to flash as well, but it also appears that must be downloaded from the market after you install 2.2.
Some people are saying they don't have flash even after the update.
