here's my take...
Verizon IS pushing the update. And I've seen on twitter people are getting the update according to droid life and others. i think friday into the weekend was the "test group" and monday will be full blast.
instead of telling people to copy the update to the sd card like i saw in the other thread, rather install alogcat from the market and when you see you have an update to install and it needs to be downloaded, STOP, run alogcat, then download..before you install email the log to your computer, look for a link and publish it here so we can all update manually. and then of course install your own froyo.