MSUgEEk
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I'm going to take a second to rant. Please ignore if you don't want to read a rant and if you do read it, it isn't directed at you. It's not directed at anyone here, just general people we run into on an almost daily basis.
On another note. That cold front pushed through and todays highs are in the low 70's and lows tonight in the mid 40's! Fall is here
Rant 1:
If you haven't already been made privy to a young couple's situation regarding life plans, especially in the area of children, then chances you are never going to be or they just don't know you well enough yet. Constantly asking when the couple is going to have children or why they don't have children yet does several things, but none of them are good. It sure doesn't get you any more information than what you already have regarding that situation. You aren't going to make the decision for them and you won't push them along any quicker than they are going. So just stop. There are reasons they don't have children. Those reasons could include: they aren't ready financially, they aren't ready because of relationship problems, they don't have a stable job, they plan to adopt instead of have their own, they are having trouble conceiving, they just simply don't want children. You don't know that reason and if they haven't told you, they don't want you to know yet or just don't want you to know period. It's not your business so stop asking.
Rant 2:
We all know children complicate things. We all know children can also be a joy. You don't have to spend every breath declaring those things. Appropriate responses to someone telling you why they were late do not include "Just wait till you have kids!". Appropriate responses to someone complaining about bills is not "Just wait till you have kids!". Appropriate responses to a couple telling you how happy they are together do not include "Just wait till you have kids!". Just stop. We already know about kids and trouble and joy they can bring. We've heard it a million times, just stop. If you're kids did something to make you happy or tick you off or make your life difficult, feel free to share that, but DO NOT respond to our every sitation with some remark about how we don't have kids and how we don't know how hard it can be or how happy life can be.
Sorry for the rant, but I had to vent.
If you haven't already been made privy to a young couple's situation regarding life plans, especially in the area of children, then chances you are never going to be or they just don't know you well enough yet. Constantly asking when the couple is going to have children or why they don't have children yet does several things, but none of them are good. It sure doesn't get you any more information than what you already have regarding that situation. You aren't going to make the decision for them and you won't push them along any quicker than they are going. So just stop. There are reasons they don't have children. Those reasons could include: they aren't ready financially, they aren't ready because of relationship problems, they don't have a stable job, they plan to adopt instead of have their own, they are having trouble conceiving, they just simply don't want children. You don't know that reason and if they haven't told you, they don't want you to know yet or just don't want you to know period. It's not your business so stop asking.
Rant 2:
We all know children complicate things. We all know children can also be a joy. You don't have to spend every breath declaring those things. Appropriate responses to someone telling you why they were late do not include "Just wait till you have kids!". Appropriate responses to someone complaining about bills is not "Just wait till you have kids!". Appropriate responses to a couple telling you how happy they are together do not include "Just wait till you have kids!". Just stop. We already know about kids and trouble and joy they can bring. We've heard it a million times, just stop. If you're kids did something to make you happy or tick you off or make your life difficult, feel free to share that, but DO NOT respond to our every sitation with some remark about how we don't have kids and how we don't know how hard it can be or how happy life can be.
Sorry for the rant, but I had to vent.
On another note. That cold front pushed through and todays highs are in the low 70's and lows tonight in the mid 40's! Fall is here


Hope everyone is having a great Tuesday!