I have been lurking on these forums for about three months now and haven't joined until now for this exact reason. There are a lot of members here that are brutal and for seemingly no reason. Now, I notice there aren't a lot of ads here on the forum so I'm guessing that this isn't a revenue based forum but still, the tension gets so high that it makes me want a xanax.
As for the upgrade, if and when it comes to my phone, should I just whip out the video camera and record the whole process? No matter how many times I read the instructions for how to log the update, I still get this feeling that I would get the wrong information and get an angry mob at my doorstep.