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A tease?
- Thread starter Vinsanity93
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These are high school people.
Not many dads of daughters in this thread?
Not many dads of daughters in this thread?
Roze
Hiding behind a mystery
ElasticNinja
Android Expert
Yes Rose, your point?
Roze
Hiding behind a mystery
Yes Rose, your point?
You guys better not put stuff in the kid's head that would get him in trouble
GodRah
Lurker
Yeah, I'm new to these forums, and only signed up cause of this topic. It's pretty interesting. I have something to say about someone's certain tactics here when getting women...
No. Cheesy lines like that are never going to get a girl. I know it's worked for you sometimes, but really, what girl is going to like a guy that constantly flatters them all the time? The only ones like that are girls with a dominatrix or dominating complex, and ones who feel like they need to control a guy. Otherwise, a girl is going to find you creepy, and only think your flattering her because you have an agenda. That agenda is sex. Here's what really works...
So a couple guys in my class were gawking over how good this girl looks, and some of them were complimenting her just like you were with some of the other girls you did. She came over to me and my friend when we were assigned to do a project. She said, "Hey, do you guys think I'm cute?" She said with a smile. Then, my friend said something about how she was one of the finest girls he ever met in her life. Me? I completely disrespected her, and she loved every minute of it O_O! I said, "no, infact your the ugliest girl in school." She laughed, and slapped me on the arm saying "lol, your funny." I told her I was being serious, and kept on making fun of her. By this point, she was just laughing throughout our whole conversation, and my friend was going crazy about how she was ignoring his compliments. Needless to say, she likes me more than every other guy in the class cause I'm not the ones kissing her ass all the time.
It's weird how a lot of females are like this, but if you insult them just a little bit with a wink, and smile or even serious like I did, they'll think your funny. Let's face it, almost every single female gets compliments thrown at her all the time on a daily basis from guys she doesn't, and does like. It really is better to just tease her, and make fun of her than just compliment her all the time. Or do a reverse complimenting technique or whatever. Say how you never thought you'd find such a beautiful girl in the school, and then say how maybe you'll still find one.
Oh yeah, and I agree about how if the girl says "no" you don't need to be an asshole about it, but I still don't think you should go out of your way to be her friend. For some reason, most women just don't like to give their "guy" friends a chance. It's so stupid. They think of you like their brother that's why, but your NOT their brother. It's your job to remind them of that. In the end, don't fool yourself. Being her friend ISN'T better than nothing. You'll have to sit there putting up with her BS, and listening to her stories about her boyfriend, and sometimes she'll even talk about their sex life. It can put a real strain on you if you like her. In end, men and women just can't be strictly friends unless both of you have a partner or if both of you find each other physically disgusting. One party is going to end up falling for the other. It's best to just forget about her all together.
That's just my opinion on this subject matter. I'd really like to hear your response. I know flattering has gotten you somewhere with the ladies, but I think the teasing and making fun of her is the much better route. Especially in this day and age when it comes to young females at the very least. Those well into their 20s to 30s.
No. Cheesy lines like that are never going to get a girl. I know it's worked for you sometimes, but really, what girl is going to like a guy that constantly flatters them all the time? The only ones like that are girls with a dominatrix or dominating complex, and ones who feel like they need to control a guy. Otherwise, a girl is going to find you creepy, and only think your flattering her because you have an agenda. That agenda is sex. Here's what really works...
So a couple guys in my class were gawking over how good this girl looks, and some of them were complimenting her just like you were with some of the other girls you did. She came over to me and my friend when we were assigned to do a project. She said, "Hey, do you guys think I'm cute?" She said with a smile. Then, my friend said something about how she was one of the finest girls he ever met in her life. Me? I completely disrespected her, and she loved every minute of it O_O! I said, "no, infact your the ugliest girl in school." She laughed, and slapped me on the arm saying "lol, your funny." I told her I was being serious, and kept on making fun of her. By this point, she was just laughing throughout our whole conversation, and my friend was going crazy about how she was ignoring his compliments. Needless to say, she likes me more than every other guy in the class cause I'm not the ones kissing her ass all the time.
It's weird how a lot of females are like this, but if you insult them just a little bit with a wink, and smile or even serious like I did, they'll think your funny. Let's face it, almost every single female gets compliments thrown at her all the time on a daily basis from guys she doesn't, and does like. It really is better to just tease her, and make fun of her than just compliment her all the time. Or do a reverse complimenting technique or whatever. Say how you never thought you'd find such a beautiful girl in the school, and then say how maybe you'll still find one.
Oh yeah, and I agree about how if the girl says "no" you don't need to be an asshole about it, but I still don't think you should go out of your way to be her friend. For some reason, most women just don't like to give their "guy" friends a chance. It's so stupid. They think of you like their brother that's why, but your NOT their brother. It's your job to remind them of that. In the end, don't fool yourself. Being her friend ISN'T better than nothing. You'll have to sit there putting up with her BS, and listening to her stories about her boyfriend, and sometimes she'll even talk about their sex life. It can put a real strain on you if you like her. In end, men and women just can't be strictly friends unless both of you have a partner or if both of you find each other physically disgusting. One party is going to end up falling for the other. It's best to just forget about her all together.
That's just my opinion on this subject matter. I'd really like to hear your response. I know flattering has gotten you somewhere with the ladies, but I think the teasing and making fun of her is the much better route. Especially in this day and age when it comes to young females at the very least. Those well into their 20s to 30s.
And even beyond that in years, I assure you.
Male or female - nobody that's for real likes a suck up, imo.
Welcome to the forums!
Male or female - nobody that's for real likes a suck up, imo.
Welcome to the forums!
GodRah
Lurker
Thanks! I should have introduced myself in the other topic, but I decided to post here first anyway. Oh yeah, and before someone says it, yes, a boy and a girl can be friends if both or one of them is gay or whatever. Speaking of that, make sure the girl doesn't think your that.
^Unless you are.
tattedman
Android Enthusiast
I am just warning everyone if I repeat something sorry i skipped some(alot) of posts
Ok dude,
First off don't go after the chick flirting with you.... the main reason is shes trying to probably make the old guy jealous..... and you don't want to be that guy that when she gets the old guy to go crazy enough to win her back(trust me that 99% will happen.....) she will take him back and put you on the curb...... iv been in both situations(both the used and the one the chick is using to get my attention) so I know how it is......
The shy girl may be into you but most likely not as shes talked to you only a few times..... if a shy girl likes you she will talk to you alot but still keeping distance...... if you get what I mean.... is she always giggling and smiling? I think shy girls are the best bet.... they imo are less drama..... and the relationship usually last longer....
Ok dude,
First off don't go after the chick flirting with you.... the main reason is shes trying to probably make the old guy jealous..... and you don't want to be that guy that when she gets the old guy to go crazy enough to win her back(trust me that 99% will happen.....) she will take him back and put you on the curb...... iv been in both situations(both the used and the one the chick is using to get my attention) so I know how it is......
The shy girl may be into you but most likely not as shes talked to you only a few times..... if a shy girl likes you she will talk to you alot but still keeping distance...... if you get what I mean.... is she always giggling and smiling? I think shy girls are the best bet.... they imo are less drama..... and the relationship usually last longer....
Vinsanity93
Android Enthusiast
Sorry for taking so long to reply, but it didn't really work out with shy girl "/...Guess she didn't really like me like that
But at least I have another story for you guys lol:
This girl asked me to prom a while ago and I said yes since I didn't have one at the time either. I just met her this year and she seemed like a really chill and outgoing girl. On the other hand, I've heard stories from some friends and they say that she has a lot of "mileage" on her and some other stories that I really don't want to believe but I don't want to be in denial either.
Now this is confusing me because like I said she looks like a nice girl so right now I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt since I haven't seen any evidence of this, but I also trust my friends although they do sometimes mess around. It feels like everybody that knows I'm going to prom with her knows something [bad] about her that I don't.
I have paid for the prom tickets (I still have them) and she said she would pay me back numerous times but still hasn't. She did, however, give me money to pay for the ride to prom and I took that as a good sign that she would pay me back but I am still unsure...She works a lot though so we can never really hang out and her phone got turned off because she was working too much (parents). I think that ever since my friends told me stories about her, it has made me paranoid about her actions but at the same time I feel that I should heed their warning.
I'm really hoping to make her more than my prom date but if she really is just trying to play me, then I will just cut it [the relationship] off after prom.
PS: These "friends" are more like people I talk to in school but I've known them for a while now.
But at least I have another story for you guys lol:
This girl asked me to prom a while ago and I said yes since I didn't have one at the time either. I just met her this year and she seemed like a really chill and outgoing girl. On the other hand, I've heard stories from some friends and they say that she has a lot of "mileage" on her and some other stories that I really don't want to believe but I don't want to be in denial either.
Now this is confusing me because like I said she looks like a nice girl so right now I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt since I haven't seen any evidence of this, but I also trust my friends although they do sometimes mess around. It feels like everybody that knows I'm going to prom with her knows something [bad] about her that I don't.
I have paid for the prom tickets (I still have them) and she said she would pay me back numerous times but still hasn't. She did, however, give me money to pay for the ride to prom and I took that as a good sign that she would pay me back but I am still unsure...She works a lot though so we can never really hang out and her phone got turned off because she was working too much (parents). I think that ever since my friends told me stories about her, it has made me paranoid about her actions but at the same time I feel that I should heed their warning.
I'm really hoping to make her more than my prom date but if she really is just trying to play me, then I will just cut it [the relationship] off after prom.
PS: These "friends" are more like people I talk to in school but I've known them for a while now.
i am way older.. and all girls/men have mileage.. I would not care what she did in the past.. (except cheaters.. that is just bad...once a cheater...)
i would base you decision on what you see and experience. past is past and everyone at that age is learning.
i dont know the stories are.. but unless they are like way crazy... Group Sex..with animals or bad nasty shit.. it is all just noise.
i am in the crowd that.. money for dates.. is water under the bridge. if she pays it cool... if not cool. dating cost money and if you worry about that.. you miss the something good.
unless you give more info.. I would say.. just have fun.. and see what she is really like before you make any decisions
i would base you decision on what you see and experience. past is past and everyone at that age is learning.
i dont know the stories are.. but unless they are like way crazy... Group Sex..with animals or bad nasty shit.. it is all just noise.
i am in the crowd that.. money for dates.. is water under the bridge. if she pays it cool... if not cool. dating cost money and if you worry about that.. you miss the something good.
unless you give more info.. I would say.. just have fun.. and see what she is really like before you make any decisions
Vinsanity93
Android Enthusiast
They say she has a kid that lives with her stepdad...
But she told me she has a brother that lives with her stepdad
ElasticNinja
Android Expert
I'm sad to say.. the more unstable the family situation, the faster you run!
Vinsanity93
Android Enthusiast
If I see stretch marks on her abdomen, that would be a good sign that she was pregnant...right?
The problem I have is I don't know who to trust...Rumors like this float around a lot in high school but I've only known her for like 5-6 months
I highly doubt I can do that, the only way for certain is to ask her mom and if I'm wrong and it is her brother and not her son, it would be highly inappropriate especially since I haven't even been introduced yet.
The problem I have is I don't know who to trust...Rumors like this float around a lot in high school but I've only known her for like 5-6 months
I highly doubt I can do that, the only way for certain is to ask her mom and if I'm wrong and it is her brother and not her son, it would be highly inappropriate especially since I haven't even been introduced yet.
ElasticNinja
Android Expert
Or she could've gained weight in the abdominal area.
Vinsanity93
Android Enthusiast
True true...
Any other ways to tell? I know boobs get bigger and start lactating but I can't tell from the latter yet lol -____-
...at least she would be a milf (if she did have a kid) -__-
ElasticNinja
Android Expert
Could you not tell if she is lying?
If iI was a trashy girl in her position I'd say it was a brother not my son
Oh and about the MILF thing.. it may sound cool but not a good thing in a High School student. lol
Vinsanity93
Android Enthusiast
You mean American Pie was wrong? lmao
But seriously she must be an amazing lier because HS taught me a lot...Looks like I could use Dr. Lightman's help
Now it feels like I'm in denial "/