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I remember watching some TV show where a black family just moved into the neighborhood. There was a black guy in his 20's as a part of the family and he was this angry guy. A white guy also in his 20's was trying to befriend him and the black guy kept finding every way to make the white guy be the bad guy. Finally the white guy just called the black guy out, saying that that black guy focused more on skin color than anyone else there. People didn't want to hang out with him not because he was black but because he was a pissed off bitter guy that was mean to everyone.
I also taught a student in my class that kept viewing herself as a victim. She was mix black and latina and always spent time complaining about how the system is prejudiced against her and unfair. While I agreed with her that the system is not fair I told her very firmly that life is a bitch. You can either whine about it and play the victim and be the victim or fight and get out of the hell hole you are in. Who knows if she will listen.
I know there are still racist people around for sure. But as a culture, race, group whatevers, people gotta stop pigeon holing themselves as being the victim. This is probably taboo to say this but I feel like blacks (and other races as well) completely limit themselves from every becoming better by keeping on playing the victim and seeing persecution everywhere. You are only as strong and powerful as you make yourself to be. If you keep on wanting hand outs and support for everything "to help you improve your life" you will just depend on it for the rest of your life.
Good post, but I think it goes even deeper. The blacks have been beneficiaries to a lot of handouts, over the years this has eroded their drive to succeed. Not all of course, but there's a defined line that separates go-getters and the where's my money that I'm entitled to because of what your ancestors did to mine. If you want an extreme example of this look at the native Americans. Their culture is all but gone and they as a people are not far behind.
I MUST add that I think Indian culture is way cool and I cannot help but respect ANYONE that succeeds with honesty and integrity. Which is why I HATE social programs because they are neither honest or successful and run on those who are. Bad, bad, bad ,bad, bad.