I'm past do for an upgrade. Just wondering form those who have had theirs for a while if they think the Nexus is to big (ergonomically speaking)

. I would need a small case (I work construction) and lots of times I carry my phone in pants/shirt pocket at work. The rest of the time on a clip holster.
Don't know your phone history so this may be old news for you and I haven't had my Nexus long enough to get a good feel for it in the environment yet, but my Droid absolutely HATED being in my pants pockets at work. Too humid. The capacitive screen would freak out badly until it had an hour or so to dry out. It hasn't been hot out yet, but so far the Nexus seems more resistant to the pocket humidity.
Back pocket is generally out because of the potential for breakage when you bend over or crouch.
Front pocket was sketchy whenever I had to carry heavy stuff or lean against edges or railing.
Shirt pocket was subject to the above as well as falling out when bending over...unless buttoned
Belt holster was OK when I didn't have to crawl but always snagged on crap even when I wasn't.
Pliers pocket on a pair of carpenter pants was about the best I found for the Droid. Out of the way most times, reasonably dry, etc.
Grease, grit, dust, gloves, tools...etc...all enemies of the touch screen.
Frankly, if I still worked construction, I would have a mil-spec flipper like the a Casio G'zOne. Failing that, I would let the accessories drive the choice. A hard shell holster would be a must for me. The Old Moto StarTac was the best. When holstered, it fit close to the body and because of the hard plastic was scrape resistant. Damn, that was a good phone.
(I have a widely varied labor history. Electrical, HVAC, carpentry, machinist, mechanical...you get the idea...

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