Its also possible that it is your opinion that cars should be made any way the manufacturers want to and if you want seat belts, then buy from a manufacturer that supplies it.
If you let the telcos have complete control of what goes in the phone than they will put stuff in the phone that will squeeze every dime they can from you and lessen your user experience as well. And once one company does that they will all do it, so you won't have a choice to go to a better phone.
Oh yes - what a great example - when the car manufacturers are regulated by CIVIL LAW to provide suitable safety devices within the construction of an automobile
lets look at it another way
Microsoft Xbox 360 is a platform - games developers are allowed to create and publish any game as they see fit - arcade, shooter, racer etc etc as long as it works on the console (similarly PS3, Wii & PC games)
UHF/VHF is a transmission standard for TV channels through aerials - manufacturers can design TV's anyway they want, use their own menu systems as long as TV channels can be received
Google provide the Android operating system for smartphones, so needs to send receive calls, sms, email, mms and internet services - these are minimum requirements - hence why any handset goes through FCC approval - in other words if it doesn't do the job and isn't fit for purpose it doesn't get licensed
The X10 has passed all of these requirements therefore is available at retail, which also means that Sony has met Google's minimum requirements for licensing the Android OS Platform
As for not letting telco's put their own touch on the handsets - in that case we may as well stick with 1 handset manufacturer cos going down that route would mean all samsungs/sonys would be identical except exterior design.
But hang on, isn't that why we have competition in the marketplace - isn't that why we have monopoly commissions - to ensure not 1 company has complete control - besides which, we as customers DEMAND choice
Choice of handset, choice of features, choice of OS
which is what Sony, Apple, HTC, Samsung etc etc etc etc offer
Choice of handset, choice of features, choice of OS
Samsung Galaxy S/Sony X10
OLED SCREEN/SuperLCD
Android 2.x/Android 1.6
Without choice and variety we'd all be using the same phone, built by the same company, paying the same cost to use the same network
Give me tin cups and string anyday over communistic control of what we as consumers DEMAND from our everyday lives -
THE ABILITY TO CHOOSE FOR OURSELVES