Hey Slick,
I appreciate your comments on Pete's ESE53 BB and I am very curious about it because I want to understand the whole rooting, custom rom, themes, kernal management. Pete seems to be getting a lot of the community mindset. I'm also very happy to hear you are rock solid with your system, unlike so many who probably contributed to their own problems . That said, I have terrific performance and battery life, multitouch in browsing, gallery, and maps, wifi tethering, and rock solid stability. What do I really get with the ESE53 rom besides the eye candy?
For me, the ESE53-based ROMs feel like a better "fit" for the phone, if that makes any sense. More than likely, that's because the ESE53 is essentially the official file that we are supposed to receive via the 2.1 update (it was leaked by a Motorola employee, I believe). As a result, the ROMs based off of it are super smooth and you don't even feel like you're running a ROM. You feel like you're running a stock Droid instead of a 2.0.1 based ROM that was rigged and forced to run LWP (for example). The ESE53 has been optimized for and was totally intented to run LWP, and thus it does so effortlessly. But LWP is just one example among many. Battery life is better. The browsing is WAY better than the Milestone-based browser in 2.0.1 ROMS (the anti-aliasing is perfect, the pinch to zoom is smooth with no glitchiness, it scrolls like butter, pages load fast). The 2.1 gallery doesn't lag or stutter.
And, these are just a few of the things I've noticed without even being OC'ed. I've been running Pete's last few ESE53 iterations for weeks and I haven't oven OC'ed yet and have yet to have any FC issue or lag (may install a kernel tonight or tommorrow b/c I need WiFi tether). Yes, you will have to install your own kernel to get OC and WiFi (DroidMod does this for you), but it's easy peezy. Sure, as developers add more and more stuff to their ROMs, there's the chance that bugs will be introduced. But I can tell you that Pete's ESE53 v0.8 is as "bugless" as you're going to get out of a ROM. Like I said, I haven't had ANY bugs and it doesn't even feel like I'm using a ROM. But there are other great ROMs out there that are just as bug free and just as awesome (Chevy's, Blackdroid's, etc).
Cyanogen's/Koush's ROM and Pete's v0.9 BB have reached the point where they are basically the same as having FULL 2.1 on your Droid (3D app drawer and all). And, actually, they are better than full 2.1 in certain ways. For example, Pete's 0.9 BB allows you to enable a lot of awesome scripts. For example, there is one script that allows you to save a huge chunk of internal memory. Both of those ROMs have some minor bugs at the moment and I'd wait for those to be ironed out before flashing them (they are both very new ROMs). For the moment, I'd say go with Pete's ESE53 v0.8 because it, at this point, it has been thoroughly vetted and is as stable as you can get. Wait for those bugs to get rooted (no pun) out, and then hop on to BB v0.9 or Koush's or whatever other ROM you see out there that seems to stable enough for you.
Don't get me wrong, Droidmod is an unbelievably cool tool (like someone else said, it's good to keep Droidmod for unrooting or flashing between recoveries) and a great ROM, but there are other options.
And yet, even after typing all of that, I'd suggest you stick with Droidmod if you're happy with it. Afterall, if it aint broke, don't fix it.