So I was able to initiate the update on my wifes phone. After switching to TWLauncher I could initiate the Device Management, but the arrows stopped after only a few seconds. I then set the update to start in an hour (while in Device Management hit menu then Software Update, 1 Hour should be selected, hit ok) and then rebooted the phone. At this point there was a clock as part of the Arrow Icons in the top let corner. When the phone completed rebooting the clock/arrow icon was there again. I started Device Management using the desktop shortcut and about 30 seconds later I was notified I had an update to install. I will update the OP with this...

I got to the arrow and clock. Pressed DM from shortcut, select start DM and it said "DM session working, etc" Been 15mins. No prompted update. Running on Production setting and over 3G network. Do i have to download the OTA file and dump it somewhere?