lunameow
Well-Known Member
Let me put it this way. I am a short, fat, 37 year old woman with prematurely grey hair that I sometimes dye and sometimes don't. If I go out in cutoff sweats, a t-shirt with a stain on it, my hair uncombed, no makeup, no bra... basically, looking like I just rolled out of bed, then yes, I absolutely expect that people will make a snap judgment about me, and rightfully so. I'm sending the message that I'm a fat, lazy slob. Am I? Nope. But to those people who see me, that's their only impression of me. It's not the impression I want to give, so I don't go out in public like that.
Humans are, by and large, visual creatures. And because it's unrealistic to expect every single person to "sit down and have a conversation with" every other person in the world, appearances DO matter. If you don't want people to think you're an uneducated thug, don't project that image. Seems pretty simple.
Humans are, by and large, visual creatures. And because it's unrealistic to expect every single person to "sit down and have a conversation with" every other person in the world, appearances DO matter. If you don't want people to think you're an uneducated thug, don't project that image. Seems pretty simple.