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First of all, before doing anything else, get the 'Droid X Bootstrapper' App...
Droid X Recovery Bootstrap - Android app on AppBrain
... and make yourself an nandroid or two. Once you've done that, you can go to work cutting out what ever you wish. And while I've done that in the past, Saint make a good point, ROMs that have cut out the bloat and blur run better than just removing the bloat and blur yourself. At least that's my experience.
I will be the first to tell you to stay away from Liberty if you were running cyanogenmod...
Nah, he should try BOTH out and see what works best for him. Apex doesn't work very well on my device. It does for many, but not for all. Liberty also works for many, but not for all.

nope lost all my apps after flashing apex

Back to stock! I haven't had any calls this week since i flashed apex so I had no idea that I had NO VOICE whatsoever. Was at Lake Seminole last night and had to go restore my backup. Good thing I had the company phone with me.