It's official - my better half is celebrating her twelfth year of sobriety, tonight, at a meeting in a nearby city. Tomorrow, she even invited me to attend her medallion ceremony.
I'm honored.
At least her sponsor likes me, even though I'm not into the co-dependency thing that is endemic to A.A., as well as N.A., and - even G.A. (Gambler's Anonymous).
I still believe that one has to stand on their own two feet, and maintain accountability and responsibility for their actions. That was drilled into my head as a kid growing up, and my late parents grew up during the Great Depression - so, there wasn't any escape route for me, when I decided to bend, or break house rules.
At any rate, I'm on the computer, getting ready for... a rant. What grinds my gears is:
Just an hour ago, my lady and I had gone to top off the car's fuel tank. Prices, in my area of NC, are $2.07 a gallon (the lowest price, according to GasBuddy). With our Walmart Gift Card discount, it came to $2.04 a gallon. I've heard that gas prices in Colorado were around $1.67 a gallon - that, my friends, must've been nice.
The gas station was SWAMPED. However, I managed a Mass-Hole maneuver, and got to a pump before this skinny, drunk redneck did - his truck was too big to fit in sideways, and I just squeezed right in. He opened his door, after backing his truck just inches from the trunk of the car - I was already out, with my cane (and galvanizing pain), getting the hose and nozzle into the the car's filling receptacle.
He said, "Say, man, don't make me wait!" Which, really started to p*** me off. He closed his door with a slam, and, I yelled, "You'll get your turn!" While the pump was filling the car, I went to the windshield washer station, and dunked the squeegee into the windshield solvent.
I then proceeded to wash and squeegee the windshield, and, back window. Due to all of the rain on our muddy roads, it was something that needed to be done. This guy was literally screaming inside of his King Ranch Ford pickup, epithets that don't need to be repeated here... and, yes, the car was still filling up - as it was damned-near next to the 'vapor mark' on the gas gauge... the red light had turned on during our ride miles back, letting me know that I was getting close to running out of gas.
After my therapy appointment, and my lady picking up her prescriptions at a pharmacy, we went to shop for groceries at a nearby grocery store. Then, to go and get the car filled up. We return to our story in progress.
I put the squeegee back into its holder, and, limped over to the nozzle.
He then whips his door open, and slurred: "I done told ya not to make me wait! Did you just say somethin' to me?!" My lady got out of the car, and yelled, "What the hell is your problem? We're still filling up. You're just being an @$$hole!" I then turned, and said that I was "... just about finished. Don't blow a gasket."
I was trying to defuse the situation, and get the car filled, by manually squeezing the nozzle lever tighter, to get the job done. This guy got out of his truck, all five feet three inches of him, and said: "I oughtta kick your @$$!"
I couldn't help it, but I just started laughing. People nearby were watching; one older fellow told him that he needed to "cool it, Billy, or I'm going to call 911!"
Apparently, this slowed him down a bit. "But he's been taking up too much time, and, I've got places to go, John!" John replied, "We all do. Can't you see the guy is using a cane?" My lady came over to me, and yelled, "If he doesn't call the police, I will!"
I looked at this poor excuse for a human being, and I said: "Cane or no cane, you're going to regret meeting me. Get the hell back into your truck, or you'll be wishing you hadn't!"
I don't know if it was the look in my eyes, or, the way I said what I had said. He just cursed me out some more, and, wouldn't you know it? The police showed up. The cop asked me if the guy had tried to threaten me, and I told the cop: "If he tried to do anything, I would've defended myself. Between you and me, Deputy, I think this guy's got an open container in his truck, and he seems to be inebriated to me."
The cop said, "It wouldn't be the first time." The guy got back into his truck, and proceeded to leave, while the cop and I talked about what the police has to deal with, on a daily basis - and that my deceased father had been a State Port Authority cop, until he retired back in 1999. Apparently, the cop wasn't having any of it. Another cruiser had pulled up, blocking the pickup truck in.
Long story short - the guy refused to take a breathalyzer, and, they put handcuffs on him, and carried him off to jail. The guy had a nearly finished bottle of Wild Turkey, placed upon the hood of his truck, and, they even found some METH on him. Dammit, Jim. That sucked for him, to be sure...
In my cigarette case that I use as a wallet, I pulled out my old Fraternal Order of Police card, back from when I was a member, because I wanted the cop to see it. He shook his head, and said: "It's a small world. My brother worked up at the Norfolk, VA terminal - as a Customs agent, and constable. He probably knew your dad."
We said our farewells, and, my lady and I left. What a night.
I miss you, Pa. Ma - you, too - LW