http://forums.team-nocturnal.com/index.php/topic/1362-how-to-adb-fastboot-in-windows-xp-7-81-10/
i could'nt get it to work with this guys instructions....but it led me to Team Nocturnal...and i got the drivers from there once you get it to boot into fastboot....unplug the usb cord....plug it back in and check device manager to see if there is an issue with the drivers (that was my problem) after you install the right driver...type fastboot devices,,,and it'll show up...then follow the last instructions from XDA ...
you probably allready have the right stuff on your SD card since you're allready tried...so ......................
adb reboot bootloader
while you're in fastboot ...
fastboot flash recovery twrp_recovery.img
fastboot flash boot boot.img
then
while in bootloader mode, press volume down until recovey mode is diplayed, press power.
In TWRP recovery install remove_encryption.zip, SuperSU246.zip, once completed reboot.
DO NOT FORMAT SYSTEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!
then smile if it worked
it was all about the right drivers for fastboot......
MAD PROPS TO VAMPIREFO!!!!!!!!!
and everyone else that tried to help...TY TY TY TY