Backgound:
I sold my jailbroken 2nd gen 16 Gb iPod touch for $200 on eBay to get the Droid Incredible. I got about $180 after the fees and the droid cost $220 after taxes so I had a $40 difference to cover. I had the iPod for about a year. I did this about a month and a half ago.
Htc sense stock player:
The music experience on the Droid Incredible is OK but not amazing. The stock player isn't that good, and if u will do a lot of listening outside, the AMOLED screen won't perform well in direct sunlight. Specifically, the repeat and shuffle buttons are virtually invisible. A lot of people say they want a tag editor and such, but I do that stuff on my computer. I would rather see a google supplied, uniform way to sync music. Drag and dropping to my phone is OK, but every now and then I change my tags or want to remove some albums. I just have to make sure I have everything exactly the way I want when I put the songs on my phone. Also, I would like to see an equalizer. I'm against equalizers but depending on how I'm listening to my music, via headphones, car, theater system etc., sometimes they are too bassy and I would like to be able to adjust the equalizer.
doubleTwist:
And then comes the doubleTwist music player. Solves my main problems with the default player. It is much more usable, attractive, and easy to navigate. The buttons are huge and it also adds the ability to rate the songs in the music player. It also has a computer iTunes clone that will sync music. I've only used it once(before I switched back to the stock player) but it seems to get the job done.
But then it adds two problems. It doesn't have last.fm scrobbling and it can't read from both the internal memory. This poses a problem because I have an 8gb sd card in my incredible and I have my music split between the sd card and internal storage. Even if I went without scrobbling, this was the deal breaker. DoubleTwist has acknowledged this though and they are working on a fix. Hopefully the update will include last.fm scrobbling too. If so, I'm sure doubleTwist will become everyone's standard music player.
doubleTwist Updating Their Android App to Add Internal Storage Support | Android Phone Fans
All the other music players:
Ugly, confusing interface, some include features I dont' need which just crowds the interface. Most of them at least have last.fm scrobbling. I would rather just stick with the stock player than these. I don't mean to hate, they are OK and a lot of people love these. Whether you prefer these to the stock player is just going to be personal preference.
Others may feel different but remember everyone's music listening habits and therefore, their requirements in a music player will be different.
What I suggest:
Sell your iPod, get the Droid Incredible, use the stock player until the doubleTwist update.
Other thoughts:
I don't know how big of a mobile gamer you are but my two let downs when switching to the droid incredible was the music player and the paid games. While I feel like in the app department, droid can match the apple app store, I think the paid
game apps are seriously lacking. On the other hand, there are a lot of OK free games, but I would like to see more high quality paid games.