I found the Incredible mega-thread to be much more stressful (and often even faster-moving!) than this one. Guess we've learned that vzw does a decent job of keeping things hush until they want it to be known.
I've learned a tip from that experience - sometimes when I was getting so anxious I was blowing off work to f5 a forum, I'd imagine if I did have the phone in my hand, "Now what?". Really, you play for a few minutes and go back to life, rather anti-climatic actually.
Truthfully speaking, the phone is only a material thing. It doesn't matter much in the scheme of things. What I enjoy, in these threads, is the excitement, friendships and fun. When the phones do come out, it's often anti-climactic, unless you get into the whole rooting scene.