i know what i would be missing
I know what am I missing by not having the very, very best video card for my computer. Does that mean I didn't enjoy Bioshock 2 on my computer? Of course it didn't. Not only that even if the Incredible was the exact copy of the Desire you'll know what you'll be missing a few months down the road when something new launches. At some point a phone is either good enough for what you want or not. I don't see too many being upset having an incredible. Hell if they would've given the Droid 5 home screen I probably would have kept mine.