I've also decided that i will just get a Nexus One if it comes out within like a week. I've also been greatly weighing the pros and cons of each phone.
To me, truthfully and honestly. I love to have the best, this goes for anything from shoes to computers. Now that im thinking about it, i also don't feel like i can wait for the HTC Incredible any longer.
I've thought about it. They are virtually the same phone, HTC Incredible has a better camera (honestly, 8 megapixels or not, it won't beat a typical digital camera). It's got HTC Sense (Okay this may play a bigger factor) but after looking at it. Android 2.1 is virtually the same on either phone even with HTC Sense. Sense gives 7 home screens and like i think 1 exclusive live wallpaper. Thats about it.......maybe the keyboard is better but im not positive on this.
Virtually everything else is the same, snapdragon, RAM (unless incredible gets 1gb but thats pushing the limits considering the EVO only has 512mb also, 1gb is overkill right now anyway, unless your gonna run like 30 apps simultaneously).
I personally think the Nexus One looks better on the design also, the rounded edges and curves it has plus its slim design is just plain sexy. Trackball lights up for that nice little touch. Honestly, trackball vs track pad.......WHO THE HELL CARES!!! ITS A TOUCHSCREEN PHONE. Honestly, tell me how many times are you going to use the trackball/tackpad over just swiping with your finger. Im gonna go with the trackball/trackpad are barely ever going to get used so it doesn't really play a factor. It only plays a factor in blackberries where you can only use it to navigate.
Basically, the only difference between the two phones is HTC Sense UI, and 8 megapixel camera. Everything else is virtually the same even though personally, HTC Sense over stock android 2.1 doesn't seem that much of a difference, especially with live wallpapers being the same on either phone and i know all of you will use the sick live wallpapers.
If the Nexus One comes out, im picking that baby up now, can't wait any longer. And if the Incredible comes out like 2 weeks later, you know what, i won't regret my purchase and i won't return it either. The Nexus One is a beauty of a device itself and it looks better IMHO. The Incredible also doesn't have a ton going for it to make it a huge deciding factor besides the 8 megapixel camera and Sense (which doesn't seem that different from stock 2.1)
Just my .02 cents.