First I would like to say that I also have a DX and my photos in day/night and any lighting situation are at best EXTREMELY grainy and in the worst case TERRIBLE.  (BTW, I use to own the HTC Incredible.  Much superior camera.)
Second, for any who will dare say that there is no such thing as a phone that can take great pictures has apparently never seen or heard of the Nokia N95.  This phone was out a few years ago (before touch screen smart phones were the hot thing.) and it took SPECTACULAR pictures with a 5MP camera and wait for it 
It had a real flash, not a LED flash.
Another thing I would like to point out just as an FYI for those who don't know.  2 things that are extremely important for taking good pictures and is almost always overlooked is a good lens aka optics i.e. Carl Ziess lens (most commonly used on Sony cameras, also used on the Nokia N95) and a good digital processor which is capable of processing the photo fast enough.  Yes there are other variables which are just as important.  But I have noticed that most people have a tendency to overlook these 2 items or just flat out don't realize the importance of them when they see a high MP rating.  Personally I would take a 3-5MP camera with a good processor and lens over a 8MP camera with a whatever or poor quality process or and lens any day that ends in the letter y.