Well, guys and gals, I hate to be the one to bring reality to this forum but I need to vent and Steven said OT was ok. My gf and I of one year just broke up. She claims she needs time to focus on herself and figure things out. We've had our ups and downs but always worked past it. She wants to remain friends but I'm not sure what I should do. All of my friends say I can't allow her to have her cake and eat it too...and that I should definitely say no to make her choose and realize what she's losing......but it's so hard to imagine her not being in my life. She says she doesn't want a relationship in the slightest now and needs at least a year to get her life in order. Do I take the chance of losing her forever and let it go, hoping she will return? Or do I stay friends with her and hope that things work out, at least being happy she is still a part of my ilfe? We broke up for 6 weeks and she came back to me afterwards when I held strong on not being friends, as I wanted a relationship.
I'm confused and I'm sorry to vent here. I know this isn't a relationship forum....but we are texting on my Droid X so it kinda ties in??
Love ya guys