Ok, I've put on enough ROMs on now and started my phone fresh enough times that I finally have some app preferences that I feel good about...
Z4root and superuser - on CM7 I don't need these, but they ARE awesome.
Titanium Backup Pro (and now Titanium Media Sync, since I just wiped out my SD card) - God, what an app.
Juice Defender Ultimate - Greatest app ever. Honestly.
CacheMate - App Killers did me more harm than good, I came to realize.
Fancy Widget Pro - Beautiful Widgets finally drove me over the edge with the bugginess.
Power Widget - I REALLY like my giant PW options bar.
LauncherPro - Took me a bit to really give it an honest go. Now I must have it.
Opera - The only browser I can find that I can read all my online comics on in focus after expanding images. Plus, I like the speed, and don't need the Skyfire flash workaround.
eBuddy - I'm an IM whore.
Wheres My Droid - Found my phone in a friend's car couple weeks ago.
gReader Pro - Gotta have my feeds.
MailDroid - K-9 gave me more false new email notices with my half a dozen accounts, though I'm still looking for a better email client.
Google TV Remote - Hell, I reach for my phone before reaching for my Revue remote these days.
Google Maps - I live around DC. Traffic layer. Nuff said.
AdFree Android - I'll support on my own terms. I'm not shy to donate.
ChromeMarks, Evernote, Dropbox, WolframAlpha - Too handy not to have.
Flicks Watcher for Netflix - I check this daily. A complete list of new movies added to instant watch, and the ability to add them to my queue. That's it, but that's exactly what I want.
If I get no other apps, these are all I really need or want. Pretty much everything else is play time.
Hm, seems I've made some changes in my "must haves."
AdFree Android - After a while, when I wouldn't install this one, I noticed that I didn't notice I wasn't using it, really. I don't even bother with it anymore.
Power Widget - Don't use this anymore. I gave up the extra couple of options for speed by using the notification bar widget that comes with CM7.
Opera - Man, did THIS one really lag down my phone after a god-aweful update. I've been using stock browser since, though I've tried and liked Dolphin.
Beautiful Widgets - It runs smooth as butter these days.
BeyondPod + Pocket Casts - BeyondPod is amazing compared to gReader Pro for my print feeds, and Pocket Casts is equally as amazing for audio feeds.
Email - I've just been using the stock email client for a while now. I've come to realize I don't need amazing features, just the ability to read them and occasionally respond.
Volume+, Paid version (which is free at the
developer's site.) - Volume issues are a thing of the past. I just had to learn to boost no more than I needed, for quality's sake.
ChromeMarks + PhoneMarks - ChromeMarks starts my browser straight to a bookmarked site, PhoneMarks syncs my bookmarks with my native browser, letting me choose which bookmarks get synced. I have about a thousand bookmarks strewn across folders, so I keep a separate bookmarks folder on my puter that I sync. I don't need all of them in my browser, just a select few. I use ChromeMarks to open the browser to any bookmark for faster linking, and Phonemarks for in-browser use so I don't have to exit to get to ChromeMarks.
News360 - A great time killer with video feeds that actually play. If someone knows a better news feeder, I'd like to see it.
AppsOrganizer - I've tried most I could find, but this is the one I'm having the best luck with, and no lag as long as I use shortcuts to folders instead of widgets. I keep shortcuts to the different folders in my dock, with starred apps at the top of the folder. Everything is organized and quick to get to from my home screen with no shortcuts on the home screen itself.
Netflix - I still use the original release that came out for 2.3, without updates. I don't need a fix for it to work as long as I never update it. When I get a update notification from Market in my bar, it's never in there. It asks if I want to update it when I open it, but that's it. I don't use it every day, so it's no big issue. Still working fine.
So, I've changed a few things, added a few things, but the rest still hold strong.